"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm a fat girl magnet, I seriously can't stop attracting fat girls

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Develop muscles. Get ab etching. The more masculine you look, the better your chances are of getting a beautiful woman who'll make you erect and all.

The fine for being too skinny with the nice guy look is little female attention from fine women and fat chicks who think they have a chance. Read the above paragraph to learn how to be relieved of this fine.

Case closed. Court is adjourned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is a very amusing thread.

Advice: just ignore them completely. Ignore your own thread that you've created. Start thinking about the girls you are attracted, not the girls you are unattracted to.

It's like those women who want to lose weight, but only think about fat, and all the foods they fear will make them fat. The more they think about those foods, the more tempted they are. The more tempted they are, the more likely they are to eat those foods. Hence, they attract more fat.
 

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I used to get hit on by gay guys all the time. Thankfully I don't anymore simply because I instinctively know when it is happening. I have a toned physique and think a lot of women still prefer a Brad Pitt or David Beckam type body as opposed to straight out bodybuilder. One thing I have notised is that there are a lot of women who are reasonably attractive and often quite hot who are around 150-154lb. Sure they would need a bit of height on them. I have always preferred women who weigh under 60kg or 132lb, these days more and more women are around 150-154 and up. I usually like a women lighter than myself, have started notising women slightly heavier than myself as being attractive, still not real fond of heafers though.:cool:
 

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Bump, I HATE fat girls so much guys and they won't stop hitting on me. All the input is much valued.
 

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Let me ask a quick question about this:
Are some of you saying that if you are better looking or higher value then fat girls will NOT hit on you? Because you are so obviously out of their league? Because that seems to be what is being implied. I'm not sure I agree with that. If you are attractive, fat girls will be attracted to you as much as any other woman, IMO.

There could be an exception based on the situation. For instance, if you are in a public place with a lot of really hot thin girls all over you, they might get the hint and stay away.
Also, I suppose it's possible that the more muscular you get, the fewer fat girls you will attract, if you believe that theory about fat girls being attracted to skinny men because they want to be skinny themselves.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zekko said:
I'm not sure I agree with that. If you are attractive, fat girls will be attracted to you as much as any other woman, IMO.
Not true. Are you familiar with DJ Qualls? Well, do a Google image search if you don't know who he is. If a fat girl likes DJ Qualls then I wouldn't say in-shape girls like him too. He's the type of guy that would only appeal to a fatter girl.
 

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If a fat girl likes DJ Qualls then I wouldn't say in-shape girls like him too. He's the type of guy that would only appeal to a fatter girl.
You're saying that because a fat girl might like a thin guy that she would not be attracted to an in shape guy. I disagree. All types of girls will be attracted to an in shape guy.

You're saying that fat girls are only attracted to unattractive males basically. Again, I disagree. You don't think the fat girls would like to be able to get the guys that the hot girls get?
 

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zekko said:
You're saying that because a fat girl might like a thin guy that she would not be attracted to an in shape guy. I disagree. All types of girls will be attracted to an in shape guy.

You're saying that fat girls are only attracted to unattractive males basically. Again, I disagree. You don't think the fat girls would like to be able to get the guys that the hot girls get?
I'm just saying that if a fat girl likes a guy that looks like this, then that doesn't automatically mean that in-shape girls like him too.

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/a/S/O/alphadogprempic14.jpg

Now a fat girl and an in-shape girl might both like a guy who looks like this:

http://aretheyserious.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/matthew_mcconaughey.jpg

BUT I think the fat girl can identify more with the extremely skinny guy more than she can the same guy every other girl likes.
 

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Bobby Rio said:
Dude..i've banged a lot of girls. A LOT of hot girls..

And I still bang fatties from time to time. Never have trouble getting it up.

"Its all just practice for the big game"

Way I look at...
Just curious, what is the ratio of fat girls to in-shape girls that you've had sex with? I've often heard that guys who have sex with lots of girls will have sex with a fat girl every once in a while just to sort of keep the ball rolling I guess you could say. Is this true?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hate fat girls with a passion.

Sweaty, ugly, often wearing clothes too small for them, and then to top it off they moan about being overweight as if it's some type of disability!

Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested. I don't necessarily mean being rude to them but body language etc etc, although I do take the point that fat girls often just go for you anyway even though you seem to not be remotely interested.
 

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Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested. I don't necessarily mean being rude to them but body language etc etc,
I am blatantly rude to them, but it just seems to make them want me all the more.
 

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LuisGarcia10 said:
Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested.
I've tried that. I've tried everything. I've tried being mean, being nice, being neutral, it doesn't matter. Fat girls can't seem to take a hint and get it through their fat thick head of theirs that a guy doesn't like them.
 

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Pass some of those fat slvts to me lazi...

at least 1,000 fat girls have hit on me
Cut yourself off from the fat farm, thereby reducing the number of these incidents.

Why fat chicks like tall toothpick-looking guys is beyond comprehension. It's bizarre. They never seem to be attracted to FAT guys. I would imagine that fat chicks would feel even FATTER when they're beside an emaciated guy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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