“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Im a complete and utter Coward..THE JOURNAL!

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shotgunbob

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Ok now that thats out of the way...the healing can begin lol. Um...Im 16 5'6 and a little chubby but muscular cuz of football and powerlifting. Im filipino but a little darker than most. Im full blooded filipino but I look very spanish/Hawaiien(sp?) and I'd say im handsome but I have ZERO confidence. I'm funny and make people laugh very easily but I get so nervous around girls when they walk by and make eye contact, I immediately look straight at my feet. I can hold a conversation but cant start one. Im insecure about alot of things. I've never had a girlfriend. AND....I've been scouring every corner of this site. Im really glad to have found this place and I think it'll be very good for me to follow the advice given. I really appreciate what you guys do and I think its a very valuable public service. OK, so I cant update cuz Im leaving for hawaii for 2 weeks but I'll keep a little notebook of my approaches. My biggest hurdle will be my shyness. It binds me. It chains me to the floor. Its clutches my vocal chords and twists my posture into the shape of a question mark. Okedoke, lets change my life boys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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Start with just holding the eye contact. Then take baby steps, such as smiling. then saying hey, then after a few days of those baby steps, advance to the small talk. THen numbers.

EIther that or just dive right in, which ever you feel more comfortable with.
 

BuckwildSantos

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Make sure YOU get HER number.. not that SHE gets YOURS

besides that, id follow Skilla'z advice.
 

Vincent

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Have fun reading thje bible and doing the boot camp :)
 
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