"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yyyy1313

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Asked out HB6, she says yes. I still can only think about the HB8 that rejected me from weeks ago. Blah.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gravityeyelids

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Get rejected more. Keep getting rejected over and over again by the hottest girls you can find and you will become numb. It will suck at first but once you are completely apathetic to rejection you will become an unstoppable beast.
 

floydb25

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Sounds like a case of wanting what you can't have, and pining for the unavailable. This is how obsession, pedestalization, and one-itis occurs. Just remember that the other girl isn't special; a prize, or of high value for rejecting you - and vice versa for the other one.

Hot girls do this with everyone who doesn't meet their 500 standards, and doesn't "excite" or turn them on 24/7, so don't sweat it. Certainly don't view them as being out of your league, or "better" than you because of this. They're high maintenance and stuck up regardless.
 

Packers2010

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dude.. rejection is nothing. i went up to a hb8 last night and said " you lost your friends?" she just looked at me and then walked off.

i was like " awe..." but i mean.. how much is it REALLY going to affect me? sure it hurt a little at the time i can't lie about that, but i'll be doing the same next weekend.

your only focusing on the negative man. you got to realise. you have about a 50/50 shot. either she will place nice or not.

the more girls you talk to.. the more you can get on the right side of the variance man.
 

floydb25

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^ Well said. That's definitely the right mindset to have. Even if you DO land a date - it doesn't mean it's in the bag, or that you "accomplished" something. Never view them as the prize.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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