Originally posted by PANK
I will not support such an unsavory request.
Then don't post on this thread.
Jango, it's not so much "not giving a f***" as it is not being afraid of rejection. Lots of times we won't do things because we're afraid of offending someone or somehow losing someone's approval. But in the end, WHO CARES? If you know you're a good person, go out and try stuff. If you see a hot girl and you feel like going up to her and saying, "Wanna see my wang?", then go ahead and do it.
Now you know this'll probably get you a good slap across the face at the very least. But in the end, are you any worse for wear? Not really. So she thinks you're a sick little monkey. Does this affect who you ARE? No...because you know that you're a good person. Moreover, you know that you're a MAN in control of your own life and your own feelings and you seek approval from no one. Your validation comes from within, from your own sense of self-confidence.
And at the same time, each rejection is a SUCCESSFUL experience. Why successful when the girl slapped you and walked away? Because you learned what NOT to say/do.
A lot of the tips and tricks on this website are things that men found that do/don't work. How did they find these things out? They went in, with the confident and self-assured attitude of a DJ, and TRIED IT.
Don't ever feel bad about approaching a woman. It's your innate, hard-wired nature to approach women. Don't make any excuses or apologies for what you want. She wants it too...it's just a matter of attracting her and making her want it from YOU, showing that YOU are the best source for satisfying her romantic needs (the Alpha Male).
You remember all those guys who were bad-asses on the playground that always harassed the girls and the girls always ran away screaming from? Ever wonder why those losers are the ones getting all the chicks in high school? Because they've been confidently interacting with girls and learning about how they think/what they want from experience, while you've been learning this stuff from your mom's "one day you'll find..." lectures.
And if you offend her or lose her approval in the process, shrug, make a mental note, take some knowledge from the experience, and move on to the next girl.
I'm learning this more and more: the hallmark of a true DJ is that when he has problems, he doesn't run and hide from them, nor does he complain about them. He learns from them, then he fixes them.
