“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like you failed at least twice. Men on sosuave are not about marriage, most have body count above 100. Like one great don juan once said: You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life. Women want to catch the bird and throw it in a cage, which is commitment. When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn't you think something is wrong with that bird? After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage?

No, women want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAUTIFUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do.

It sounds like you weren't a good catch and flied into a cage by your own will, which eventually left a scar on your soul, thinking wrongly that it's women's fault, daddy issues, etc. No Sir. It's you.

You proposed both times.
I'd be very surprised (borderline shocked actually) if more than 50% of this forums posters have had sex with more than 100 women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sounds like you failed at least twice. Men on sosuave are not about marriage, most have body count above 100. Like one great don juan once said: You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life. Women want to catch the bird and throw it in a cage, which is commitment. When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn't you think something is wrong with that bird? After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage?

No, women want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAUTIFUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do.

It sounds like you weren't a good catch and flied into a cage by your own will, which eventually left a scar on your soul, thinking wrongly that it's women's fault, daddy issues, etc. No Sir. It's you.

You proposed both times.
Nope.
First proposed to me.
The remainder of you post has the same accuracy.
 

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... and twice married. If you think I might have learned something useful fire away.

I have a question for you.

If you have any feeling a woman might be "the one" what is the Number One thing I learned the hard way you must know out about her?
hmmm… that’s she’s down for anal, on the regular.

That’s it isn’t it…..I’ll bet money !
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What made you decide to marry the women you did please explain in great detail

Thank you
I have a thing for hot little lap size blue eyed blonds.
There is a lot to be said for a lap size woman!
From whence it comes?
Don't really know and that fact haunts me.

I have spent years reading Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius and I now understand most of us exercise little conscious control over our lives. Ball in the pinball machine. Epigenetics has a huge influence making us what we are along with childhood programming.
The key is to peel back the layers of our responses to find what makes us act and then act differently if that is the need. Path to freedom. Path to the hearts of women.
 

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That pure logic appears to shoot the idea down. Let's say there actually IS exactly one. Does she feel the same? Men literally destroy themselves over making such obsessive thinking the forefront of their actions. Twice married? That's something we've both experienced. Does that mean we met "the two?" or that we met "the one" twice over? When did the first one stop being THE one and when did the second one become THE one?
Over the years I have quickly realized that Men are more romantic than women. I reminded that to my fresher college junior, it's a hard fact. But this is it. Modern women literature is pornography, or cheating like in Titanic, or flings and hook ups with the reach CEO or drug lord. While men dream of roses, ballroom dancing, lifting a commoner woman and bringing her to halls of riches, etc. Painful.
 

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Only wounded or needy birds do.
A reminder that men with low T, and low progesterone + high estrogen go into lock-in mode due to the fear in their body and mind that they might not get an offspring, they get very needy + lusty and even become a submissive beggar for it.
So yes.
 

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A reminder that men with low T, and low progesterone + high estrogen go into lock-in mode due to the fear in their body and mind that they might not get an offspring, they get very needy + lusty and even become a submissive beggar for it.
So yes.
You trying hard to punch that hindustan to 2 bil?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Over the years I have quickly realized that Men are more romantic than women. I reminded that to my fresher college junior, it's a hard fact. But this is it. Modern women literature is pornography, or cheating like in Titanic, or flings and hook ups with the reach CEO or drug lord. While men dream of roses, ballroom dancing, lifting a commoner woman and bringing her to halls of riches, etc. Painful.

Shades of Grey are among the highest selling books ever and it isn't men buying although we need to learn from it. Trash written by woman for women.
(no I haven't read or seen but I probably should)
All great artists and creators throughout history are men.
Male emotions are far stronger than females.
Matriarchal societies live in mud huts plastered with cow manure.
But they have what we want though and too often they squander it.
 
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