You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
fortunately, this dude isnt as insecure as you and he doesnt have to use steroids to make him feel better about himself.Originally posted by steroidsrule
post in the health and fitness... and if i was 6 10 i would be 400-500 pounds of solid muscle... if worst comes to worst.. inject steroids.. theres always somethin you can do
Bullsh1t, you're not eating enough. But you may be a hardgainer.Originally posted by Zombie
eating doesn't gain me weight.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I was just watching the discovery channel it was talking about different body structures scince your 6'10 your part of a curtain group (i forgot it's name) it's the human body which is they most superior in form....you will never be overweight due to your body structure..you share the same gene as all those basketball players ....face it man your a super-human!!!Originally posted by backbreaker
i have a first cousin who is 6'11 and is no more than 195lbs.. Played college basketball. Had trainers his entire career get him on deits, trying to gain weight.. he just couldn't
He is I believe at 215 now, which is still extremely skinny for his size, but he can't gain weight for the life of him
Originally posted by steroidsrule
post in the health and fitness... and if i was 6 10 i would be 400-500 pounds of solid muscle... if worst comes to worst.. inject steroids.. theres always somethin you can do
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I know a guy who's 6'8" and weighs 165 lbs, so quit accusing people of trolling without any evidence.Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
6'10", and 170 pounds? If you're going to troll, at least make your $hit believable. I mean, you didn't even really think that through at all, did you? I mean, if posting random bull$hit to get a reaction out of people on a forum gets your rocks off more power to you...but I'm sure you could find better ways to use your time. Life is short.
Actually, a basketball guy who played against my brother was 6'10 and he looked overweight (I don't know his weight, but he had a gut and a really chubby face). Really good player, though.Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
I was just watching the discovery channel it was talking about different body structures scince your 6'10 your part of a curtain group (i forgot it's name) it's the human body which is they most superior in form....you will never be overweight due to your body structure..you share the same gene as all those basketball players ....face it man your a super-human!!!
I dont believe you,why? 2good4u, sound familiar? Hes average height and a trollOriginally posted by Zombie
http://myspace-822.vo.llnwd.net/00411/22/86/411346822_l.jpg
Dude, do you know how much that counts for with women?? That means you can get the tall chicks with the long legs that is looking for a man she can look UP to for a change.Originally posted by Zombie
I feel like chicks are always looking at my height rather than my good looks. I'm too tall.
I'd rather be 5'8" than 6'10".
everywhere I go people stare.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.