When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
fortunately, this dude isnt as insecure as you and he doesnt have to use steroids to make him feel better about himself.Originally posted by steroidsrule
post in the health and fitness... and if i was 6 10 i would be 400-500 pounds of solid muscle... if worst comes to worst.. inject steroids.. theres always somethin you can do
Bullsh1t, you're not eating enough. But you may be a hardgainer.Originally posted by Zombie
eating doesn't gain me weight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was just watching the discovery channel it was talking about different body structures scince your 6'10 your part of a curtain group (i forgot it's name) it's the human body which is they most superior in form....you will never be overweight due to your body structure..you share the same gene as all those basketball players ....face it man your a super-human!!!Originally posted by backbreaker
i have a first cousin who is 6'11 and is no more than 195lbs.. Played college basketball. Had trainers his entire career get him on deits, trying to gain weight.. he just couldn't
He is I believe at 215 now, which is still extremely skinny for his size, but he can't gain weight for the life of him
Originally posted by steroidsrule
post in the health and fitness... and if i was 6 10 i would be 400-500 pounds of solid muscle... if worst comes to worst.. inject steroids.. theres always somethin you can do
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know a guy who's 6'8" and weighs 165 lbs, so quit accusing people of trolling without any evidence.Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
6'10", and 170 pounds? If you're going to troll, at least make your $hit believable. I mean, you didn't even really think that through at all, did you? I mean, if posting random bull$hit to get a reaction out of people on a forum gets your rocks off more power to you...but I'm sure you could find better ways to use your time. Life is short.
Actually, a basketball guy who played against my brother was 6'10 and he looked overweight (I don't know his weight, but he had a gut and a really chubby face). Really good player, though.Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
I was just watching the discovery channel it was talking about different body structures scince your 6'10 your part of a curtain group (i forgot it's name) it's the human body which is they most superior in form....you will never be overweight due to your body structure..you share the same gene as all those basketball players ....face it man your a super-human!!!
I dont believe you,why? 2good4u, sound familiar? Hes average height and a trollOriginally posted by Zombie
http://myspace-822.vo.llnwd.net/00411/22/86/411346822_l.jpg
Dude, do you know how much that counts for with women?? That means you can get the tall chicks with the long legs that is looking for a man she can look UP to for a change.Originally posted by Zombie
I feel like chicks are always looking at my height rather than my good looks. I'm too tall.
I'd rather be 5'8" than 6'10".
everywhere I go people stare.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.