“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm 35, she's 25

MikeEdward1973

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I just started dating someone, and 10 years is the biggest age difference I've ever had in a relationship.

It's going well, so far.

Anyone got any general advice in these types of situations & relationships?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, treat her like a girl! :rolleyes:

Age doesn't matter!!! And don't believe the hype that young girls are stupid!! They are feminine at all ages - except the hors tend to be masculine!
 

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If you act like it doesn't matter then it won't. I've never had a young chick even question me about my age and I date 6-10 years younger then me right now.
 

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Alright now, how many times do we have to go through this?

You are dating a GROWN WOMAN, not an alien from another galaxy.

Dude, I'm 36 and I still hang with women in their early 20's, and so do most of the guys i know who are my age.. My OLDER lady friends give me sh!t over it, but I don't give a rat's ass what they think....
 

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My advice to you would be to have a good time with her. 10 years is nothing. I fvcked a 20 year old last week. And have hooked up with plenty of younger woman. As a matter of fact I rather date a 21 year old than a 31 year old.

Woman age to fvcking fast. Be thankful she is 25 and not 35.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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realsmoothie

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The girl I'm currently dating (for three months now) is 24, I'm 33.

She LOVES the fact that I'm that old. She loves my (supposed) maturity, my (supposed) wisdom, my (supposed, though apparently good enough) sexual knowledge.

It's great stuff.
 

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Heh, don't tell IQQI, or you'll destroy her fantasy world where young women think older guys are "creepy".
 

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10 or so years different, and its no big deal. Really just depends on frame. 1 of the plates I've been spinning is 11 years junior to me. If anything I get props because all the guys her age aren't that set in career/ financing/ maturity/ etc. So yes, you can look very appealing in a younger womans eyes. Really depends on what you are looking for. If she has what you want looks, youthful vitality, etc. then run with it.
KC
 

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MikeEdward1973 said:
I just started dating someone, and 10 years is the biggest age difference I've ever had in a relationship.

It's going well, so far.

Anyone got any general advice in these types of situations & relationships?
I am 51 and I have a date Tuesday night with a hottie who is 28 . Beat that !
 

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MikeEdward1973 said:
I just started dating someone, and 10 years is the biggest age difference I've ever had in a relationship.

It's going well, so far.

Anyone got any general advice in these types of situations & relationships?

Sounds like you finally got the age difference correct, you no longer have to compensate for the woman being too old for you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Had a attractive 20 year old contact me from craigslist. She said her ex was 26.

I used to shy away from that young but really who gives a damn? I'm not looking for some serious thing with her and really i noticed that i get a lot more respect from the younger ones almost by default from the very beginning.

Also have had 21-23 year olds interested. They don't care i'm 28 next month. "Creepy" indeed. Of course I was talking to my ex (25) who said 21 is too young for me. Pshaw. They have the same girly parts.. they're just higher up and tighter. I'm willing to bet they're more fun to go out with and they seem more eager to please. No "guys suck!!!!!" mentality quite yet.
 

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I am 25..and a dad.

if I am trying to rack a 18-20 year old...do I leave the dad part out?
 

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So you're one of the guys who steal 25 y.o HBs from us 25 y.o DJs. Yes I'm tempted to tell you not to do it, because age MATTERS, purely out of selfish reasons of course. :D

Seriously though, go for it, nothing wrong with that. I constantly have to compete with older guys for young HBs around my age. They are often more resourceful (fair enough, I'm just starting out & building up my resources) & the mid-20s girls dig guys around that age more. My niche is 18-21 (not that I'm complaining :D ) and occasionally a 30-something MILF which you guys often ignore (and I will too, when I get to my 30s).

mrRuckus, 28 dating 21-23 is even completely within social norms (let alone in the DJ world where age doesn't matter). Your ex is full of sh!t.

frivolousz21, hell yes. Leave it out! Most 18-21 I know are too immature to deal with that. If you don't want to start a relationship with them, don't tell.
 

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My best female friend is 27 and she's dating a 34 year old. It's only natural for older men to date much younger women. Women in their 20's love guys in their 30's.
 
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