"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im 25, friends hooked me up with a 19 y/o.

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I was against this from the begining obviously because of her age. For 3 months I said that I did not want to go out with her because she is way to young. Well, last week they said come to their office were all going to lunch. Basically they just hooked me up with her. I met her, she is freaking the hottest chick I have dated. 9 without a doubt. But, I really dont know what to do with this. I mean, I think we are probably worlds apart as far as what we have been through.......and she has not even hit the age where girls start clubbing and see all the club world has to offer.

I want to just play it cool and not get serious, but we know how that goes. Its start off not serious, then 3-6 months go by and next thing you know your falling for the girl.

So far she has not played any games........unlike the 24 year old I was seeing. And she by far is the best kisser I have EVER kissed. I wonder what else she is good at. She is so hott that I cant imagine jus saying SEE YA. So help me out here.
Any tips?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude that's awesome! I never worry about age, unless they are under 18 or over 35.

Just play it cool. Don't get caught up with her looks and go with the flow.
 

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Enjoy the two years you've got then, before she starts clubbing.

I really can't see the problem. Shes an adult, after all.
 

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I agree with Aftershock on this one....she's an adult.
Giver her your very best and be glad you're hittin' it......
 

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Im happy for you dude. Sounds like a nice hot and not all crazy girl. You are wrong on one point though. I dunno where your at, but in the US. chicks start clubbing as soon as they hit 18. In fact most clubs usually let them into the 21+ clubs, and they get in for free! especially since she is prolly hot. Any club would take her regardless if she isnt 21.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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....

Actually, there are some clubs that she can get into. She does go to them a couple times a month it sounds like. She is in her first year of college (community college) and still lives at home. So I guess it is not as bad as a chick that would be at college parties every weekend. I am dating a couple girls right now but this girl just seems to have so much energy and her jokes are right on par with mine. Conversation is easy and she really only says a few things that ever really get on my nerves. :down:

She does not have daddy issues or any of that sh!t. Parents are still together and she went to a baptist HS. Whatever the h$ll that would mean. He parents are not strick. She can come home whenever. So, i dont know.
 

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Simply put, you are making an issue out of something that isn't an issue at all.

Don't let age put you off - it really is just a number. And she sounds mature for her age.

Don't let a decent one go!
 

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remember, old zen master saying.

if there's grass on the feild, play ball.
if there isn't, then practice!

:D

lol in all seriousness as long as she's not some 16 year old your in the green
 

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Originally posted by aftershock
Simply put, you are making an issue out of something that isn't an issue at all.

Don't let age put you off - it really is just a number. And she sounds mature for her age.

Don't let a decent one go!
so your all for pedopheillia?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im 19 and i dated a 28 year old and my current prospect is 25. Age is just a number

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by christz
remember, old zen master saying.

if there's grass on the feild, play ball.
if there isn't, play in the mud

:D

lol in all seriousness as long as she's not some 16 year old your in the green
Corrected :D
 
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