"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im 25, friends hooked me up with a 19 y/o.

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I was against this from the begining obviously because of her age. For 3 months I said that I did not want to go out with her because she is way to young. Well, last week they said come to their office were all going to lunch. Basically they just hooked me up with her. I met her, she is freaking the hottest chick I have dated. 9 without a doubt. But, I really dont know what to do with this. I mean, I think we are probably worlds apart as far as what we have been through.......and she has not even hit the age where girls start clubbing and see all the club world has to offer.

I want to just play it cool and not get serious, but we know how that goes. Its start off not serious, then 3-6 months go by and next thing you know your falling for the girl.

So far she has not played any games........unlike the 24 year old I was seeing. And she by far is the best kisser I have EVER kissed. I wonder what else she is good at. She is so hott that I cant imagine jus saying SEE YA. So help me out here.
Any tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude that's awesome! I never worry about age, unless they are under 18 or over 35.

Just play it cool. Don't get caught up with her looks and go with the flow.
 

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Enjoy the two years you've got then, before she starts clubbing.

I really can't see the problem. Shes an adult, after all.
 

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I agree with Aftershock on this one....she's an adult.
Giver her your very best and be glad you're hittin' it......
 

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Im happy for you dude. Sounds like a nice hot and not all crazy girl. You are wrong on one point though. I dunno where your at, but in the US. chicks start clubbing as soon as they hit 18. In fact most clubs usually let them into the 21+ clubs, and they get in for free! especially since she is prolly hot. Any club would take her regardless if she isnt 21.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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....

Actually, there are some clubs that she can get into. She does go to them a couple times a month it sounds like. She is in her first year of college (community college) and still lives at home. So I guess it is not as bad as a chick that would be at college parties every weekend. I am dating a couple girls right now but this girl just seems to have so much energy and her jokes are right on par with mine. Conversation is easy and she really only says a few things that ever really get on my nerves. :down:

She does not have daddy issues or any of that sh!t. Parents are still together and she went to a baptist HS. Whatever the h$ll that would mean. He parents are not strick. She can come home whenever. So, i dont know.
 

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Simply put, you are making an issue out of something that isn't an issue at all.

Don't let age put you off - it really is just a number. And she sounds mature for her age.

Don't let a decent one go!
 

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remember, old zen master saying.

if there's grass on the feild, play ball.
if there isn't, then practice!

:D

lol in all seriousness as long as she's not some 16 year old your in the green
 

christz

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Originally posted by aftershock
Simply put, you are making an issue out of something that isn't an issue at all.

Don't let age put you off - it really is just a number. And she sounds mature for her age.

Don't let a decent one go!
so your all for pedopheillia?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im 19 and i dated a 28 year old and my current prospect is 25. Age is just a number

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by christz
remember, old zen master saying.

if there's grass on the feild, play ball.
if there isn't, play in the mud

:D

lol in all seriousness as long as she's not some 16 year old your in the green
Corrected :D
 
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