"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm 22 shes 16...too young to date? LONG

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Dude, you are 22, and please tell me you are mentally 22 also...cuz what in the world does a 16-year-old girl possibly have to offer you that other girls your age can't?
THERE ARE NO GIRLS MY AGE AROUND. PERIOD

Seriously man, I live in a retirement area...average age of a the nearest city is 49.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well shyt, at least 49 is legal and I bet they would be more interesting if you're just looking to hang out :up:
 

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This is ridiculous. You wanted us to tell you what you wanted to her. You tried rationalizing it, you still are, by telling us about how mature she is, how your grandparents did it, etc. etc. You don't even answer when asked what the legal age of consent is where you live.

Stop the bull and get working on someone your age. At least someone 18 years old.
 

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Moofahsa said:
THERE ARE NO GIRLS MY AGE AROUND. PERIOD

Seriously man, I live in a retirement area...average age of a the nearest city is 49.
sadly, a 16 year old girl is just too old for you socially. If I could change the law for guys like you, I would. There is no danger to a 16 year old girl if she dates a guy that is her social inferior. If you actually date her, we'll see another thread 6 months from now about you crying the blues cause she dumped you.

Leave her alone and concentrate on the local elementary girls. :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright, I'm in Texas legal age is 17.

I dropped it, not going to persue it. You guys were right, wtf was I thinking?

I guess I got a weakness for redheads.
 

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TOP PICKUP LINES:

"Hey baby, I know of a nice little McDonalds Playland where we can kick it."

"Girl, you been running through my mind like a Teletubby all day."

"There's a puppy in the back... would you like a candy bar?"
 
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Well shyt, at least 49 is legal and I bet they would be more interesting if you're just looking to hang out :up:
This is sick, just sick!!

Go after 17 year olds - always shoot for the legal minimum!!! The closer you are to the legal minimum, the more the world will envy you - this is every man's objective!!!

I'm with you Moofasah!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Moofahsa said:
THERE ARE NO GIRLS MY AGE AROUND. PERIOD

Seriously man, I live in a retirement area...average age of a the nearest city is 49.

dude, you can't come here, ask for advice, and then try to justify why you are doing it when we don't agree.

if you wanted a confirmation, you should do what you want to do anyway.


1) it's illegal
2)itls illegal
3) shes too immature, and you can't possibly have the same interest.. me now (24) and me (16) couldn't live under the same roof


you are 23 dude.. you are a grown man (literarly) i fyou don't like your dating scene, change it.. MOVE.
 

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you are 23 dude.. you are a grown man (literarly) i fyou don't like your dating scene, change it.. MOVE.
Nah I just turned 22

I would love to move, but I made 55,000 last year working an average of 42 hours a week...all under the table with no taxes :D

I agree, it was stupid of me to consider it. But I guess I'll just have to switch up my school schedule next semester to find someone my age.
 

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and?

are you not confident enough in your skills where you are going to let a DECENT paying job keep you there for the rest of your life?
 
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and?

are you not confident enough in your skills where you are going to let a DECENT paying job keep you there for the rest of your life?
A 22 year old is making $70,000 gross - pretty damn good!! Stay where you are and buy some hos if need be!!! My goal is to marry the legal minimum age where I reside - I'm 45! This is a worthy goal!!!
 

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LMS

As ye shall be banned from further use of !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! points.:moon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LMS

As ye shall be banned from further use of !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! points.:moon:
Exclamation points are my friend!!!!!!!!!
 

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PRMoon, we can't all be in Vegas surrounded by and promoting fake boobs.
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
TOP PICKUP LINES:

"Hey baby, I know of a nice little McDonalds Playland where we can kick it."
LMAO!!
 

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From what I've learned with girls is that they're still growing up at that age. I've been friends with a couple girls through family for over 5 yrs. now and they're just now 19 & 17 and I'm 25. They're like sisters to me by now, but I will admit it has gotten tough over the past year. Girls really change right around the 18/19 yr range. I would never advise anyone to pursue a 16 yr old now. Hold off and if its meant to be then you'll have an opportunity, but don't dive in now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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