whats up guys. i am 22 turning 23 this month. anyway, i meet this chick in the city during one of my closings. she is a hb9, spanish and has a pretty nice body. so we've been hanging out a few times a week nothing crazy just a few dinners, movies etc. so anyway i go to her place last night and watch a movie and we end up in the bedroom. we had sex for a while, then she finished me off. i was pretty nervous cuz of the age difference. i mean she's prob been with a lot of dudes in her day, and i really dont have too much experience. i really like this girl and have used a lot of the material on this site (kino, c&f etc.) and its really worked out well. she knows how old i am and everything but i just hope that my bedroom inexperience wont turn her off. i've always been with older women but not that old. i dont know why i got so nervous with her. any tips on how to stay cool?
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blackbelt2k
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your her boytoy..just keep hitting it, thats all she wants...good situation for you to get some experience... try out different moves, angles, etc. while your at it.
blackbelt2k
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ohh yea, wear protection my man, she is in her sexual prime..last thing you need is for her to get preg and develop an emotional attachment to you
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Who really cares, I'm a dude of 40 who never fvcks anything over 25, all kudos to me.
Dude this type of woman(independent,Hard working that brings you to her place)I will suggest that you start her slow(lot of kisses, oral) and then finish her strong. by that I mean to hit it hard and for a long time also be a little agressive. Older women like that. Don't let her in any situation be in control. Last but not least When you are in public be comfortable with her hold her, kiss her dont let her think that she looks too old for you.
Enjoy life.
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madd props to u my friend
thanks guys. i am not nervous around her at all when we're in public, or when we're making out, touching etc. its just that i keep thinking that she will be turned off due to my lack of sexual skillz, which i hope she can teach me a few things or two:yes:
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Being 34 myself, I can probably tell you how she feels. I don't feel (mentally or physically) a day older then I did when I was 25. The only time that I notice a difference is when people start drinking or just the things that people younger then me find amusing. As for the bedroom, the only difference there is that they know how they like it at their age, but it still feels the same. Don't be nervous about it, when you get to the point of sex, just ask how she likes it. You will sound a lot more pro, then just going at it all wrong and putting her off. Guys that are sure of themselves in bed, aren't afraid to ask for the girls input.