whats up guys. i am 22 turning 23 this month. anyway, i meet this chick in the city during one of my closings. she is a hb9, spanish and has a pretty nice body. so we've been hanging out a few times a week nothing crazy just a few dinners, movies etc. so anyway i go to her place last night and watch a movie and we end up in the bedroom. we had sex for a while, then she finished me off. i was pretty nervous cuz of the age difference. i mean she's prob been with a lot of dudes in her day, and i really dont have too much experience. i really like this girl and have used a lot of the material on this site (kino, c&f etc.) and its really worked out well. she knows how old i am and everything but i just hope that my bedroom inexperience wont turn her off. i've always been with older women but not that old. i dont know why i got so nervous with her. any tips on how to stay cool?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i'm 22 banging 30 yr old hb9!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
blackbelt2k
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your her boytoy..just keep hitting it, thats all she wants...good situation for you to get some experience... try out different moves, angles, etc. while your at it.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
ohh yea, wear protection my man, she is in her sexual prime..last thing you need is for her to get preg and develop an emotional attachment to you
PigAdlemPimp
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Who really cares, I'm a dude of 40 who never fvcks anything over 25, all kudos to me.
Dude this type of woman(independent,Hard working that brings you to her place)I will suggest that you start her slow(lot of kisses, oral) and then finish her strong. by that I mean to hit it hard and for a long time also be a little agressive. Older women like that. Don't let her in any situation be in control. Last but not least When you are in public be comfortable with her hold her, kiss her dont let her think that she looks too old for you.
Enjoy life.
Enjoy life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KneghtRyder
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madd props to u my friend
thanks guys. i am not nervous around her at all when we're in public, or when we're making out, touching etc. its just that i keep thinking that she will be turned off due to my lack of sexual skillz, which i hope she can teach me a few things or two:yes:
shredhead7
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Being 34 myself, I can probably tell you how she feels. I don't feel (mentally or physically) a day older then I did when I was 25. The only time that I notice a difference is when people start drinking or just the things that people younger then me find amusing. As for the bedroom, the only difference there is that they know how they like it at their age, but it still feels the same. Don't be nervous about it, when you get to the point of sex, just ask how she likes it. You will sound a lot more pro, then just going at it all wrong and putting her off. Guys that are sure of themselves in bed, aren't afraid to ask for the girls input.