That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do your own thinking/research and decide for yourselfChrom3y said:What do you guys think?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
great, great site.sunlight said:Look at the architecture around the world.
Illuminati pyramid in France (build 1989)
http://vigilantcitizen.com/?p=2690
Isreal's Supreme Court
http://vigilantcitizen.com/?p=1229
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I avoid all media thesedays (tv,radio, news). I just listen to classical music or trance/dance (the atmospheric kind that just has a good tune etc) and for news or information I use the internet. It just gets you down when your aware of everything thats going on. I value freedom and the only way to be truely free in my opinion is to get rid of bad influences through the media that can control your mind.6-heads lewis said:and another thing that bugs me: why is their music so damn good?! lol. i hate what gaga stands for, but that song bad romance is so addictive, and damned good.
rhiana is an awesome singer in run this town, but that video, as well as umbrella, is blatantly occult.
it would be easier to ignore them if the music sucked. ive taken to lsitening to music only, not watching videos, and being consciously aware of what the lyrics mean to avoid being blindsided.
You have to understand a few concepts6-heads lewis said:and another thing that bugs me: why is their music so damn good?! lol. i hate what gaga stands for, but that song bad romance is so addictive, and damned good.
rhiana is an awesome singer in run this town, but that video, as well as umbrella, is blatantly occult.
it would be easier to ignore them if the music sucked. ive taken to lsitening to music only, not watching videos, and being consciously aware of what the lyrics mean to avoid being blindsided.
Most people DON'T HAVE THE BALLS to swallow the truth. Accepting the truth about the illuminati involves EVERYTHING AROUND YOU and it's really hard for people to accept it. They want to keep living in the world that the media gives to them. They rather have ignorance than have their whole world view come crashing down.I used to think that all the conspiracy stuff on sites like henrymakow.ca etc can't possibly be true. I scoffed at it even though he made a lot of sense. The questions I used to ask is 'why?' and basically I was in complete disbelief for a while. However there are just FAR TOO MANY 'COINCIDENCES' that all link together. Political decisions that dont make any sense to the ignorant, now make perfect sense - politicians no longer work for their countries but instead are in the pockets of international finance.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I remember hearing an audio quote from Nixon saying that it was "the queerest thing he'd ever seen". Was pretty funny hearing him say that.Dust 2 Dust said:Ever hear of Bohemian Grove?
This is a group of world leaders that meet in California to perform occult rituals. Reagan, Eisenhower, George W. Bush, and Bill Clinton were/are members.
Alex Jones infiltrated one of their ceremonies and captured one of their rituals "The cremation of Care" on video. You can watch it here:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtSVBTne-KY
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.