"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Illinois State University, U of Il. (Urbana-Champaign), and surrounding areas?

Abbott

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Anyone here attend Illinois State, U of I, or simply live in or near the area?

A couple (somewhat) major towns are Normal, Bloomington, Peoria, Urbana, and Champaign.

Some other schools around here are Illinois Wesleyan University, Heartland Community College, and Lincoln Community College.

Personally, I live in Normal, IL and I attend Heartland. Peoria and Champaign-Urbana are within reasonable driving distance.

This also applies to anyone who plans to attend any of these schools soon, or anyone who regularly visits these areas.


Ben
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Know the area

Normal is good hunting for 20 something guys. I hit a lot of a$$ there earlier this year. Try the apartments in and around the huge dorm complex (the big one by the courtyard). On the other side of the road is a bunch of white apartments. There is parties there during the weekends, at least when school is in session. You just walk from party to party and hit on chicks at the liquer store.

I doubt I'll be back up that way again until August. However, if you're ever in St. Louis give me a shout.
 

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Idea

Take the Amtrak down to St. Louis.
I have more dates down here than
I know what to do with. Poverty,
unemployment, and crime are
through the roof. This is the
perfect place to meet lots of
desperate, young hotties.

It'll only set you back 30 bucks
roundtrip, and I'll show you
where to find the ladies.
 

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Crime huh? Doesn't sound too safe.


Anyway, I'm bumping this because ISU starts school this coming Monday, and the mass-exodus of 7,000 students trying to squeeze into the way-too-small dorms in a matter of four days (Aug. 18 - Aug. 21) starts tomorrow.


Ben
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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