"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Illinois State University, U of Il. (Urbana-Champaign), and surrounding areas?

Abbott

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Anyone here attend Illinois State, U of I, or simply live in or near the area?

A couple (somewhat) major towns are Normal, Bloomington, Peoria, Urbana, and Champaign.

Some other schools around here are Illinois Wesleyan University, Heartland Community College, and Lincoln Community College.

Personally, I live in Normal, IL and I attend Heartland. Peoria and Champaign-Urbana are within reasonable driving distance.

This also applies to anyone who plans to attend any of these schools soon, or anyone who regularly visits these areas.


Ben
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Know the area

Normal is good hunting for 20 something guys. I hit a lot of a$$ there earlier this year. Try the apartments in and around the huge dorm complex (the big one by the courtyard). On the other side of the road is a bunch of white apartments. There is parties there during the weekends, at least when school is in session. You just walk from party to party and hit on chicks at the liquer store.

I doubt I'll be back up that way again until August. However, if you're ever in St. Louis give me a shout.
 

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Idea

Take the Amtrak down to St. Louis.
I have more dates down here than
I know what to do with. Poverty,
unemployment, and crime are
through the roof. This is the
perfect place to meet lots of
desperate, young hotties.

It'll only set you back 30 bucks
roundtrip, and I'll show you
where to find the ladies.
 

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Crime huh? Doesn't sound too safe.


Anyway, I'm bumping this because ISU starts school this coming Monday, and the mass-exodus of 7,000 students trying to squeeze into the way-too-small dorms in a matter of four days (Aug. 18 - Aug. 21) starts tomorrow.


Ben
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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