"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SolidGold

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Here it goes.

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Girls, your boyfriend has a reputation of being a womanizer. But if he's in a relationship with you, it means you're special to him right? So why don't you trust/believe in him? He hasn't give you any reason for those insecurities...

- Topic #2

Shy girls, it's known (even if you deny it) that booze really loosens you up. Any other way to loosen you up?

Cheers
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sylvester the cat

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If a guy has a reputation for being a womaniser, isn't that reason enough?
 

SolidGold

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sylvester the cat said:
If a guy has a reputation for being a womaniser, isn't that reason enough?
A guy changes right? He has to settle down someday...
 

sylvester the cat

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SolidGold said:
A guy changes right? He has to settle down someday...
Sure. That's fair enough. But he still has that reputation.

If a rehabilitated paedophile were released from prison, would you still trust him with your kids?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Sure. That's fair enough. But he still has that reputation.

If a rehabilitated paedophile were released from prison, would you still trust him with your kids?
Now there's an extreme example, but I have to admit... TOUCHÉ my friend ahahah
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pinkfl

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If he has that type of reputation, I'm not going to fool myself into thinking that I'm special enough to change him.

As a shy girl, the only thing that really gets me to talk is when I'm doing something that I enjoy. So if I'm in a bookstore, I'll open up...if I'm cooking, I'll open up. If I'm in a social setting I'm not 100% comfortable with, I won't open up about myself.
 
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