"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here it goes.

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Girls, your boyfriend has a reputation of being a womanizer. But if he's in a relationship with you, it means you're special to him right? So why don't you trust/believe in him? He hasn't give you any reason for those insecurities...

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Shy girls, it's known (even if you deny it) that booze really loosens you up. Any other way to loosen you up?

Cheers
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If a guy has a reputation for being a womaniser, isn't that reason enough?
 
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sylvester the cat said:
If a guy has a reputation for being a womaniser, isn't that reason enough?
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A guy changes right? He has to settle down someday...
 
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SolidGold said:
A guy changes right? He has to settle down someday...
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Sure. That's fair enough. But he still has that reputation.

If a rehabilitated paedophile were released from prison, would you still trust him with your kids?
 
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sylvester the cat said:
Sure. That's fair enough. But he still has that reputation.

If a rehabilitated paedophile were released from prison, would you still trust him with your kids?
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Now there's an extreme example, but I have to admit... TOUCHÉ my friend ahahah
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If he has that type of reputation, I'm not going to fool myself into thinking that I'm special enough to change him.

As a shy girl, the only thing that really gets me to talk is when I'm doing something that I enjoy. So if I'm in a bookstore, I'll open up...if I'm cooking, I'll open up. If I'm in a social setting I'm not 100% comfortable with, I won't open up about myself.
 
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