"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BreezyB84

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a chick isnt being receptive to your direct approach to her, you simply stop texting or whatever other platform you use.

Me: blah blah blah
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Hey I enjoyed chatting with you but I have to run. Lets continue this over a drink. How does Thursday at 8 sound.....we can check out such and such place
Her: I am not sure what I have going on Thursday (notice no counter offer for a different specific date and time)
Me: No problem. Nice chatting with you anyways and take care.

Thats it. She can ping me back later, in which after a couple quick messages I will invite her out again. If I get the same wishy washy response, I simply wont invite her out again.

Its pretty simple and it works. If they have some interest, they will wonder why you are not chasing them, and internally a woman knows that you must have other options if you arent going to beg. So if you have other options, other women want you, and you must have some worth. In that case they will ping you later on.

If their interest is low and they dont care, you wont hear back from them. Nothing gained but nothing lost either. Just move on to the next one.

And if you are not direct approaching, stop beating around the bush and wasting time and start doing it. Within 3-5 messages you should pull the "gotta run but it was nice chatting with you. Lets continue this over a couple quick drinks........" and she is either in or out.
 

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And if you arent into the chick, wtf would you waste your time messaging her unless she is a really close friend or something?

Just wait forever and give her one or two word responses and she will eventually get the hint.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
I don't give a flying ****kkk!

Time is $$$$$. She either is putting out or a attention *****.

Pickup used the epic 'freeze out.'

Any ambiguity, hot/cold, LMR, etc calls for the freeze out. Turn on the lights, check emails, back turn, make a phone call, disregard her, and or just leave altogether.

Wash/rinse/repeat!


Look at it like this.

It's 2018. Women aren't chained to the kitchen sink or bed post. Bitches can wine and dine me. Buy me dinner. Impress me. DHV me!

99% can drink like dad. Can't cook like mom. Are Chad's booty call. A walking series of abortions and used condoms. Valueless but society deems value by a vagina regardless of how fat or slutty.

As a man, you put yourself out. You make a pass. You extend the olive branch. You invite and she comes. You lead. She follows or #nextset!

Repeat till duck falls off or death.

I am going places in life. Women can come with or get left behind.

Meanwhile, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

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Get busy, find your mission. Have a good reason to be 'too busy'.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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