"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BreezyB84

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a chick isnt being receptive to your direct approach to her, you simply stop texting or whatever other platform you use.

Me: blah blah blah
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Hey I enjoyed chatting with you but I have to run. Lets continue this over a drink. How does Thursday at 8 sound.....we can check out such and such place
Her: I am not sure what I have going on Thursday (notice no counter offer for a different specific date and time)
Me: No problem. Nice chatting with you anyways and take care.

Thats it. She can ping me back later, in which after a couple quick messages I will invite her out again. If I get the same wishy washy response, I simply wont invite her out again.

Its pretty simple and it works. If they have some interest, they will wonder why you are not chasing them, and internally a woman knows that you must have other options if you arent going to beg. So if you have other options, other women want you, and you must have some worth. In that case they will ping you later on.

If their interest is low and they dont care, you wont hear back from them. Nothing gained but nothing lost either. Just move on to the next one.

And if you are not direct approaching, stop beating around the bush and wasting time and start doing it. Within 3-5 messages you should pull the "gotta run but it was nice chatting with you. Lets continue this over a couple quick drinks........" and she is either in or out.
 

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And if you arent into the chick, wtf would you waste your time messaging her unless she is a really close friend or something?

Just wait forever and give her one or two word responses and she will eventually get the hint.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
I don't give a flying ****kkk!

Time is $$$$$. She either is putting out or a attention *****.

Pickup used the epic 'freeze out.'

Any ambiguity, hot/cold, LMR, etc calls for the freeze out. Turn on the lights, check emails, back turn, make a phone call, disregard her, and or just leave altogether.

Wash/rinse/repeat!


Look at it like this.

It's 2018. Women aren't chained to the kitchen sink or bed post. Bitches can wine and dine me. Buy me dinner. Impress me. DHV me!

99% can drink like dad. Can't cook like mom. Are Chad's booty call. A walking series of abortions and used condoms. Valueless but society deems value by a vagina regardless of how fat or slutty.

As a man, you put yourself out. You make a pass. You extend the olive branch. You invite and she comes. You lead. She follows or #nextset!

Repeat till duck falls off or death.

I am going places in life. Women can come with or get left behind.

Meanwhile, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

wifehunter

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Get busy, find your mission. Have a good reason to be 'too busy'.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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