"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BreezyB84

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Glassguy

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If a chick isnt being receptive to your direct approach to her, you simply stop texting or whatever other platform you use.

Me: blah blah blah
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Hey I enjoyed chatting with you but I have to run. Lets continue this over a drink. How does Thursday at 8 sound.....we can check out such and such place
Her: I am not sure what I have going on Thursday (notice no counter offer for a different specific date and time)
Me: No problem. Nice chatting with you anyways and take care.

Thats it. She can ping me back later, in which after a couple quick messages I will invite her out again. If I get the same wishy washy response, I simply wont invite her out again.

Its pretty simple and it works. If they have some interest, they will wonder why you are not chasing them, and internally a woman knows that you must have other options if you arent going to beg. So if you have other options, other women want you, and you must have some worth. In that case they will ping you later on.

If their interest is low and they dont care, you wont hear back from them. Nothing gained but nothing lost either. Just move on to the next one.

And if you are not direct approaching, stop beating around the bush and wasting time and start doing it. Within 3-5 messages you should pull the "gotta run but it was nice chatting with you. Lets continue this over a couple quick drinks........" and she is either in or out.
 

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And if you arent into the chick, wtf would you waste your time messaging her unless she is a really close friend or something?

Just wait forever and give her one or two word responses and she will eventually get the hint.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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This might seem like a stupid question.. What is the proper way to ignore a woman in some situations? Sometimes you might have a girl you just really don’t like that much…. Sometimes the girls isn’t to receptive to you but still wants you to be an orbiter.If you just don’t respond to them at all, you will look like a dic. Do you just use small talk and cut it short? I guess the nice guy in me really is bad at this because some girls just aren’t your type and you really don’t like them but you don’t want to be a complete *******. And then there are the other girls who just provide me no value at all but still want to be around. Thoughts??
I don't give a flying ****kkk!

Time is $$$$$. She either is putting out or a attention *****.

Pickup used the epic 'freeze out.'

Any ambiguity, hot/cold, LMR, etc calls for the freeze out. Turn on the lights, check emails, back turn, make a phone call, disregard her, and or just leave altogether.

Wash/rinse/repeat!


Look at it like this.

It's 2018. Women aren't chained to the kitchen sink or bed post. Bitches can wine and dine me. Buy me dinner. Impress me. DHV me!

99% can drink like dad. Can't cook like mom. Are Chad's booty call. A walking series of abortions and used condoms. Valueless but society deems value by a vagina regardless of how fat or slutty.

As a man, you put yourself out. You make a pass. You extend the olive branch. You invite and she comes. You lead. She follows or #nextset!

Repeat till duck falls off or death.

I am going places in life. Women can come with or get left behind.

Meanwhile, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

wifehunter

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Get busy, find your mission. Have a good reason to be 'too busy'.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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