"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ignoring her/being distant.... now what?

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thatdude88

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Hey don juans,


So long story short... I felt as though interest levels were dropping with a girl I've been dating for about a month now. This is a Long-distance relationship. I decided to start ignoring her texts (she has "Read Receipts" turned on on iMessage) and replying once in awhile to some texts but being very brief and distant with my replies. She's called me out on it but I act like everything is normal.

It's been about 4 days now and I can tell it's starting to eat at her. She's been the one initiating the contact and I've been acting cold or ignoring.

My question is this, how long should I keep this up? and when should I start replying a little more normally?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Meisterman

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Can I ask why you're in a long distance relationship to begin with? How do you know she's not fuc*ing other guys?
 
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Meisterman said:
Can I ask why you're in a long distance relationship to begin with? How do you know she's not fuc*ing other guys?
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Cuz I got tired of fu*ing your mom locally...... thanks for answering my question, cool guy.
 
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