"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ignoring her/being distant.... now what?

thatdude88

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Hey don juans,


So long story short... I felt as though interest levels were dropping with a girl I've been dating for about a month now. This is a Long-distance relationship. I decided to start ignoring her texts (she has "Read Receipts" turned on on iMessage) and replying once in awhile to some texts but being very brief and distant with my replies. She's called me out on it but I act like everything is normal.

It's been about 4 days now and I can tell it's starting to eat at her. She's been the one initiating the contact and I've been acting cold or ignoring.

My question is this, how long should I keep this up? and when should I start replying a little more normally?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Meisterman

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Can I ask why you're in a long distance relationship to begin with? How do you know she's not fuc*ing other guys?
 

thatdude88

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Meisterman said:
Can I ask why you're in a long distance relationship to begin with? How do you know she's not fuc*ing other guys?
Cuz I got tired of fu*ing your mom locally...... thanks for answering my question, cool guy.
 
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