ignoring a woman

[unreal-guy]

recently i asked a co-worker out *bad idea* i know but she was too fine to let go and we have a lot of common, i flirt with her a lot


she ended up with reasons like "mom is coming to visit from other country" (which was true and told by her friends) & "working late shift" i didn't work that day so i asked other co-worker and she was right

after she rejected me and not even asking me for other time or anything... i didn't like that so 2 days later i got back to work, she greeted me and i just walked by and ignored her :crackup:


guess what happen? (4 days later) she finally tries to get my attention, i mean she did the funniest thing in front of me, like she's a cashier and going through an item with no price sticker on it. but i found the sticker on side bottom...

WTF how can u miss that, i walked away laughing (not laughing WITH her) and later on she said "bye *my name*" i kept on walking even though i've also been ignoring her for the past few days

what should i do? keep ignoring or do that tight butt already? :crackup:

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Most would tell you not to ignore, and just act normal. But I say keep ignoring her, and if she ever asks you why you're ignoring her tell her...your mind is preoccupied because "your mom is coming in from another country....you've been working late a lot"...........

 

[flexion_]

I'm not sure why you are ignoring her.

She didn't do anything disrespectful to you - all she did was tell you that she isn't interested.

Now you have drama at work.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

I'm not sure why you are ignoring her.

She didn't do anything disrespectful to you - all she did was tell you that she isn't interested.

Now you have drama at work.

It doesn't sound like the kind of job he'll be making a career out of so who cares about the drama?

 

[unreal-guy]

yes it's only a crappy job that i will quit after summer

 

[JJMcLure]

If you carry on you are well on your way to looking a jackass and incurring the wrath of this chick (they can be b1tches when they want to).

You have no reason to ignore her, unless your "feelings" were hurt or you can't handle rejection. Both of those are bad qualities and will make you less attractive to chicks.

You don't need to be creating a difficult situation at work for her or you. Isn't that unfair, when she is just there to do her job? And it could lead to complaints against you or her telling other people about it.

Besdies, if she was surprised you asked her, maybe she actually would consider dating you now she has had time to think about it. Maybe not, but it's a possibility. Ignoring her and laughing at her isn't going to help your case. Plus, it's majorly immature and you come across as weak and insecure.

 

[trajhenkhet02]

I think your reading too heavily into the second part of the story though thats just my observation. Work mistakes happen pretty often.

 

[unreal-guy]

ummm but it would be really weird...
what if she already moved on

what's a best way to get "normal" again