"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ignored a booty call then she texts this...

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Thanks goodness...bye. I'm home sick during New Year and she called at 1:45 and I didn't pick up. This girl has been playing games with me and if you want to look back at my last couple posts it will explain.

What does this text mean and should I even respond to it? I think it's her attempt to make it seem like she's not that interested and it's good I didn't pick so she "wouldn't make a mistake with me" for like the 7th time lol

This girl has been saying one thing and actions are completely different.

Will I actually get a little power back if I don't respond?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shes pretty much saying she would have banged you for the 7th time! If she is a booty call she probably has some guilt about that status which is why she joked about making a mistake. I would respond with something like if your lucky I will let you make plenty more "mistakes". Like most girls she wants more from you which is why she may be playing games. I've never been a big fan of completely ignoring texts.
 
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You haven't lost power. Take the opportunity to playfully give her a little chit negging her and then punish with her with the meat hammer.
 
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tell her you saw you missed her call and that you are so sick you were faded on NyQuil

She'll bring you soup
 
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its just to get your attention, and see if youll answer the text. if you ignore a call, but then answer the text, she'll think ok hes not REALLY actually busy, he just didnt answer my call.... you just ignore the text, and its checkmate. its all a test
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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17 shots said:
its just to get your attention, and see if youll answer the text. if you ignore a call, but then answer the text, she'll think ok hes not REALLY actually busy, he just didnt answer my call.... you just ignore the text, and its checkmate. its all a test
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shes asking for bootycall, he says no, she says thanks goodness. only immature validation and teasing

(she feels better simply by being reminded that you desire her) so she initiates such conversation where you are asked nondirectly if you desire her or not, without really caring what you think and disrespecting you at the same time, because thats a lie.

shes lying asking if u want a bootycall just to get you to say yes, then she would say "ohh, but not today" or "ohh, never"

well this is dumb lol
 
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