"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ignored a booty call then she texts this...

SanDog11

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Thanks goodness...bye. I'm home sick during New Year and she called at 1:45 and I didn't pick up. This girl has been playing games with me and if you want to look back at my last couple posts it will explain.

What does this text mean and should I even respond to it? I think it's her attempt to make it seem like she's not that interested and it's good I didn't pick so she "wouldn't make a mistake with me" for like the 7th time lol

This girl has been saying one thing and actions are completely different.

Will I actually get a little power back if I don't respond?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Machine10033

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Shes pretty much saying she would have banged you for the 7th time! If she is a booty call she probably has some guilt about that status which is why she joked about making a mistake. I would respond with something like if your lucky I will let you make plenty more "mistakes". Like most girls she wants more from you which is why she may be playing games. I've never been a big fan of completely ignoring texts.
 

Macaframalama

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You haven't lost power. Take the opportunity to playfully give her a little chit negging her and then punish with her with the meat hammer.
 

sazc

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tell her you saw you missed her call and that you are so sick you were faded on NyQuil

She'll bring you soup
 

17 shots

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its just to get your attention, and see if youll answer the text. if you ignore a call, but then answer the text, she'll think ok hes not REALLY actually busy, he just didnt answer my call.... you just ignore the text, and its checkmate. its all a test
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sosousage

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its just to get your attention, and see if youll answer the text. if you ignore a call, but then answer the text, she'll think ok hes not REALLY actually busy, he just didnt answer my call.... you just ignore the text, and its checkmate. its all a test
shes asking for bootycall, he says no, she says thanks goodness. only immature validation and teasing

(she feels better simply by being reminded that you desire her) so she initiates such conversation where you are asked nondirectly if you desire her or not, without really caring what you think and disrespecting you at the same time, because thats a lie.

shes lying asking if u want a bootycall just to get you to say yes, then she would say "ohh, but not today" or "ohh, never"

well this is dumb lol
 
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