"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian said:
the Bible doesn't actually say that -- altho i think the Catholic church might
true. the bible never says such things. people just warp and change everything to make it so it agrees with what they want. probably control

but to clear things up, the Catholic church never saaid that sex for pleasure is wrong between married couples. infact, it is the woman's duty to pleasure her man. but it says that the option of having children must be left open, which means no birthcontrol or condoms, because that completely shuts out the option of having children.

if you time your wife's cycle, you can effectively have sex just for fun and not create more kids. so no, busting all over your wife's face is not sinful, neither is pleasurable sex. hell, even animals sexually pleasure themselves just for the heck of it.

that's the churches view.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Raikojo17 said:
if you time your wife's cycle, you can effectively have sex just for fun and not create more kids. so no, busting all over your wife's face is not sinful, neither is pleasurable sex. hell, even animals sexually pleasure themselves just for the heck of it.
If you plan to avoid pregnancy, then you are avoiding reproduction and, therefore, you are sinning. And how would busting all over your wife's face not be sinful, if the condition for it not being sinful is that reproduction is possible?

As for animals, most of them don't masturbate. Only a few do, and it hasn't really been proven why they do it. (Of course, we have a pretty good hypothesis.)
 
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