"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Raikojo17

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Obsidian said:
the Bible doesn't actually say that -- altho i think the Catholic church might
true. the bible never says such things. people just warp and change everything to make it so it agrees with what they want. probably control

but to clear things up, the Catholic church never saaid that sex for pleasure is wrong between married couples. infact, it is the woman's duty to pleasure her man. but it says that the option of having children must be left open, which means no birthcontrol or condoms, because that completely shuts out the option of having children.

if you time your wife's cycle, you can effectively have sex just for fun and not create more kids. so no, busting all over your wife's face is not sinful, neither is pleasurable sex. hell, even animals sexually pleasure themselves just for the heck of it.

that's the churches view.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Raikojo17 said:
if you time your wife's cycle, you can effectively have sex just for fun and not create more kids. so no, busting all over your wife's face is not sinful, neither is pleasurable sex. hell, even animals sexually pleasure themselves just for the heck of it.
If you plan to avoid pregnancy, then you are avoiding reproduction and, therefore, you are sinning. And how would busting all over your wife's face not be sinful, if the condition for it not being sinful is that reproduction is possible?

As for animals, most of them don't masturbate. Only a few do, and it hasn't really been proven why they do it. (Of course, we have a pretty good hypothesis.)
 
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