"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ignore a little. LTR

MightyMate

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While You are in LTR to keep it working You have to ignoe girl a little sometimes.
A good way is to sms her around 5 o clock saying that You will be at her home some time later, like at 11. You are keeping the control then and she has to wait for You and feel the power. Also sometimes when You know shes waiting for You dont try to be on time, always be little later. It makes girl pissed off, but they need that, also they need to know they aint controlling You. And that last thing. Dont never ever say sory to a girl. Always make joke or so, but dont say sorry. Its a power loss.. and You dont want it.
Sometimes act like You wasnt listening to her, or simply dont listen. Give her possiblities to complain about You. She needs that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AmIAFC

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Dont never ever say sory to a girl.
I apologized to this one ho not once but twice in a week: 1.) For giving her a revealing love mark (prior to that, she asked me not to), 2.) For calling her a wh0re (I was drunk, and I wasn't joking)

I was sincere and serious in my apology. But, afterwards, I started ignoring her, her advances, invitations, and basically pretending like I forgot we ever did something.

Did I mess up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheRelic

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Proper apologize form in that situation is 'You know i didnt mean that i was drunk', not 'Im sorry i said it'. Means the same, but sounds different and You dont loose power.
I'm sorry Mighty, but this is an absolute load of wank.

Rules are there as guidelines, and material pertaining to loosing power in such a trivial situation holds little weight.

If you stuff up, you say sorry, in a roundabout way. It's not an issue of losing power, it's an issue of common courtesy - one that any halfway decent woman will recognise and respect.

I assume that when your drunken LTR cheats on you, and comes back with "it meant nothing, I was drunk", you'll acknowledge that more, as opposed to her genuinely bursting out in tears at what she's potentially lost?

It goes both ways... "DJ".

Anyway, this is nothing new. You've just chewed up and spat out something else everyone has already read. At least try and put a new, profound and cohesive spin on it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheRelic

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Originally posted by blueangel83
You boys are a little too immature.
Going on the quality of posts you have excreted, I wouldn't be the first to cast stones.
 
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