"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ignore a little. LTR

MightyMate

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While You are in LTR to keep it working You have to ignoe girl a little sometimes.
A good way is to sms her around 5 o clock saying that You will be at her home some time later, like at 11. You are keeping the control then and she has to wait for You and feel the power. Also sometimes when You know shes waiting for You dont try to be on time, always be little later. It makes girl pissed off, but they need that, also they need to know they aint controlling You. And that last thing. Dont never ever say sory to a girl. Always make joke or so, but dont say sorry. Its a power loss.. and You dont want it.
Sometimes act like You wasnt listening to her, or simply dont listen. Give her possiblities to complain about You. She needs that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AmIAFC

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Dont never ever say sory to a girl.
I apologized to this one ho not once but twice in a week: 1.) For giving her a revealing love mark (prior to that, she asked me not to), 2.) For calling her a wh0re (I was drunk, and I wasn't joking)

I was sincere and serious in my apology. But, afterwards, I started ignoring her, her advances, invitations, and basically pretending like I forgot we ever did something.

Did I mess up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheRelic

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Proper apologize form in that situation is 'You know i didnt mean that i was drunk', not 'Im sorry i said it'. Means the same, but sounds different and You dont loose power.
I'm sorry Mighty, but this is an absolute load of wank.

Rules are there as guidelines, and material pertaining to loosing power in such a trivial situation holds little weight.

If you stuff up, you say sorry, in a roundabout way. It's not an issue of losing power, it's an issue of common courtesy - one that any halfway decent woman will recognise and respect.

I assume that when your drunken LTR cheats on you, and comes back with "it meant nothing, I was drunk", you'll acknowledge that more, as opposed to her genuinely bursting out in tears at what she's potentially lost?

It goes both ways... "DJ".

Anyway, this is nothing new. You've just chewed up and spat out something else everyone has already read. At least try and put a new, profound and cohesive spin on it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheRelic

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Originally posted by blueangel83
You boys are a little too immature.
Going on the quality of posts you have excreted, I wouldn't be the first to cast stones.
 
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