"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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@ IgetIt!, KontrollerX, Warrior74, Squirrels, Rollo Tomassi, Bible Belt, Str8up

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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fertileTurtle

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Hell yeah Jayer.
 

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How often are you guys approaching women?
I have been with a girlfriend for a spell, so there was no approaching during that time. I recently relocated and will be picking it up again. Playing the night game, it will be probably 2-3 nights per week.


When you approach women do you now have it choreographed or are you freestyling it?
Its all free style, but I learned from my mistakes and know what not to say now. In that sense it is choreographed. I feel better going with the flow of conversation.

Whats your success rate with number closes?
If I am feeling the vibe of a chick, its at 99% in the past few years. I don't try and number close cold leads as I will barely finish a conversation with them. Number closing is only part of the picture.

What venues do you guys sarge at? Day game? Night game? Social circle game?
I used to go out a lot on weekends, but also hold my own parties and mingle there. Night game is probably my strong suit, and the social circle game is like shooting fish in a barrel...got in trouble for it a few years back!

A rough estimate of sexual partners AFTER you discovered the seduction community... No comment is acceptable as this is a very blunt, direct and maybe rude question..
Its over 10- beyond that no one needs to know. I don't usually divulge this information, but no one i know really questions weather or not I am a poser.

What is your passion in life? Like, not work.. Just something that you really enjoy doing that has nothing to do with females..
Easily hockey. I love playing the sport. Its my escape from everything. I guess working out goes along with that.

A brief description of your looks..? Maybe height, weight, ethnicity..
I'm about 5'10", 180 lbs part Italian. I work out a lot. Women seem to appreciate it.

What were you like before you got into pick up..?
Into nerdy things, and quite shy. Still pretty head strong, and had a good work ethic. its what got me here.

Whats your career?
Engineer- part owner of a company

What is one thing you could teach up and comers..? One thing that you feel would save these guys a lot of pain and maybe reduce some of the redundant posts on this forum..

find a way to respect yourself before you respect a women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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