"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@ IgetIt!, KontrollerX, Warrior74, Squirrels, Rollo Tomassi, Bible Belt, Str8up

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fertileTurtle

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Hell yeah Jayer.
 

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How often are you guys approaching women?
I have been with a girlfriend for a spell, so there was no approaching during that time. I recently relocated and will be picking it up again. Playing the night game, it will be probably 2-3 nights per week.


When you approach women do you now have it choreographed or are you freestyling it?
Its all free style, but I learned from my mistakes and know what not to say now. In that sense it is choreographed. I feel better going with the flow of conversation.

Whats your success rate with number closes?
If I am feeling the vibe of a chick, its at 99% in the past few years. I don't try and number close cold leads as I will barely finish a conversation with them. Number closing is only part of the picture.

What venues do you guys sarge at? Day game? Night game? Social circle game?
I used to go out a lot on weekends, but also hold my own parties and mingle there. Night game is probably my strong suit, and the social circle game is like shooting fish in a barrel...got in trouble for it a few years back!

A rough estimate of sexual partners AFTER you discovered the seduction community... No comment is acceptable as this is a very blunt, direct and maybe rude question..
Its over 10- beyond that no one needs to know. I don't usually divulge this information, but no one i know really questions weather or not I am a poser.

What is your passion in life? Like, not work.. Just something that you really enjoy doing that has nothing to do with females..
Easily hockey. I love playing the sport. Its my escape from everything. I guess working out goes along with that.

A brief description of your looks..? Maybe height, weight, ethnicity..
I'm about 5'10", 180 lbs part Italian. I work out a lot. Women seem to appreciate it.

What were you like before you got into pick up..?
Into nerdy things, and quite shy. Still pretty head strong, and had a good work ethic. its what got me here.

Whats your career?
Engineer- part owner of a company

What is one thing you could teach up and comers..? One thing that you feel would save these guys a lot of pain and maybe reduce some of the redundant posts on this forum..

find a way to respect yourself before you respect a women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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