"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you're seeing a girl how often should you see her?

Locogooner

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if you're just seeing a girl, how often should you see her?

this is my first non serious relationship and tbh I'd rather just enjoy the sex rather than go out with her and ****.

so yeah, I'm still kinda single but seeing someone. anyone else had similar situations?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigneil

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The best relationship I ever had was one where I went to see the girl once a week. There's something natural and rhythmic about it.

It's enough time so you have new things to talk about, and enough that they start to miss you. To avoid monotony, occasionally see them twice in one week, and occasionally skip a week.
 

Locogooner

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bigneil said:
The best relationship I ever had was one where I went to see the girl once a week. There's something natural and rhythmic about it.

It's enough time so you have new things to talk about, and enough that they start to miss you. To avoid monotony, occasionally see them twice in one week, and occasionally skip a week.
it's not a relationship though..

I just hooked up with her and am now casually seeing her.
 
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