"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you're seeing a girl how often should you see her?

Locogooner

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if you're just seeing a girl, how often should you see her?

this is my first non serious relationship and tbh I'd rather just enjoy the sex rather than go out with her and ****.

so yeah, I'm still kinda single but seeing someone. anyone else had similar situations?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigneil

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The best relationship I ever had was one where I went to see the girl once a week. There's something natural and rhythmic about it.

It's enough time so you have new things to talk about, and enough that they start to miss you. To avoid monotony, occasionally see them twice in one week, and occasionally skip a week.
 

Locogooner

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bigneil said:
The best relationship I ever had was one where I went to see the girl once a week. There's something natural and rhythmic about it.

It's enough time so you have new things to talk about, and enough that they start to miss you. To avoid monotony, occasionally see them twice in one week, and occasionally skip a week.
it's not a relationship though..

I just hooked up with her and am now casually seeing her.
 
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