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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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If you're seeing a girl and shes in a cafe with a guy,u go to kiss,she turns her head

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Should you have issue with a girl you are seeing if you've been dating a bit, made out a bit, and are definitely 'seeing' each other that if you go into a cafe and see her having coffee with a guy and you go up to her to kiss her and she looks at you funny and turns her head?

To me it seems as if she doesn't want the other guy to know that you're seeing each other. Should you call her out for it later or is it too early until you're officially together?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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J Roc said:
shes not your girl, shes everyones friend
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Yeah, but should I take issue with the fact she won't let me kiss her on the lips when I greet her?

That she doesn't want this other guy to know you're seeing each other.
 
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Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
 
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Make a mental note of it. You could try teasing her about it if you cannot hold it in. but beware, and watch her. It may have been innocent. Whenever you two kiss "hello" or "goodbye", does she do this? If she always uses her lips otherwise, it is a red flag.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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S. Pryor said:
Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
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Hahaha. Yeah, nothing like going to prison for a few years for aggravated assault to teach some random chick a lesson.
 
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It doesn't sound like you two are exclusive or even in any sort of serious relationship.

Thus she's definitely not required to kiss you and is also free to see other guys.

I'd take equal responsibility here, clearly you misread that it was not an appropriate time to kiss her.

Picture yourself on a date with some other girl. Would you want this chick to just randomly walk up to you and kiss you? Would kind of hurt your chances with the new chick, no?
 
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S. Pryor said:
Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
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And you'll get hard time for this act.

I like what smoothtalker said too. You two are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. That's why she's not receptive to you kissing her like that. If you were a couple, she would let you kiss her no matter what unless the time and place were blatantly inappropriate.

OP, you need to become one who can crush the competition.

Case closed.
 
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And you'll get hard time for this act.

I like what smoothtalker said too. You two are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. That's why she's not receptive to you kissing her like that.
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Besides the fact that this guy must be better-looking than the OP, right?

If you were a couple, she would let you kiss her no matter what unless the time and place were blatantly inappropriate.
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Don't forget, she would also let him kiss her if he was better-looking.

OP, you need to become one who can crush the competition.
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Not to mention become better-looking.
 
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