"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you're seeing a girl and shes in a cafe with a guy,u go to kiss,she turns her head

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Should you have issue with a girl you are seeing if you've been dating a bit, made out a bit, and are definitely 'seeing' each other that if you go into a cafe and see her having coffee with a guy and you go up to her to kiss her and she looks at you funny and turns her head?

To me it seems as if she doesn't want the other guy to know that you're seeing each other. Should you call her out for it later or is it too early until you're officially together?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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J Roc said:
shes not your girl, shes everyones friend
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Yeah, but should I take issue with the fact she won't let me kiss her on the lips when I greet her?

That she doesn't want this other guy to know you're seeing each other.
 
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Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
 
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Make a mental note of it. You could try teasing her about it if you cannot hold it in. but beware, and watch her. It may have been innocent. Whenever you two kiss "hello" or "goodbye", does she do this? If she always uses her lips otherwise, it is a red flag.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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S. Pryor said:
Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
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Hahaha. Yeah, nothing like going to prison for a few years for aggravated assault to teach some random chick a lesson.
 
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It doesn't sound like you two are exclusive or even in any sort of serious relationship.

Thus she's definitely not required to kiss you and is also free to see other guys.

I'd take equal responsibility here, clearly you misread that it was not an appropriate time to kiss her.

Picture yourself on a date with some other girl. Would you want this chick to just randomly walk up to you and kiss you? Would kind of hurt your chances with the new chick, no?
 
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S. Pryor said:
Let cooler heads prevail.....until then throw a cup of coffee in her face. She'll learn not to fuck around then.
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And you'll get hard time for this act.

I like what smoothtalker said too. You two are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. That's why she's not receptive to you kissing her like that. If you were a couple, she would let you kiss her no matter what unless the time and place were blatantly inappropriate.

OP, you need to become one who can crush the competition.

Case closed.
 
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And you'll get hard time for this act.

I like what smoothtalker said too. You two are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. That's why she's not receptive to you kissing her like that.
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Besides the fact that this guy must be better-looking than the OP, right?

If you were a couple, she would let you kiss her no matter what unless the time and place were blatantly inappropriate.
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Don't forget, she would also let him kiss her if he was better-looking.

OP, you need to become one who can crush the competition.
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Not to mention become better-looking.
 
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