If its frosh week now or coming up really soon, I can't stress it enough Approach! everyone is in a good mood, you have some common ground to work with (same school, ask how their summer was, where theyre from) and its super easy to at least get a facebook contact if not (preferably) a number. If its your first year in university/college, dont worry about who you were in highschool, if you were a nerd, no one knows that in university. You are finally in control of what label you want to have, go out their and get it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If youre in University...Approach like f***** crazy
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