"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If youre in University...Approach like f***** crazy

mtlwlu

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If its frosh week now or coming up really soon, I can't stress it enough Approach! everyone is in a good mood, you have some common ground to work with (same school, ask how their summer was, where theyre from) and its super easy to at least get a facebook contact if not (preferably) a number. If its your first year in university/college, dont worry about who you were in highschool, if you were a nerd, no one knows that in university. You are finally in control of what label you want to have, go out their and get it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mando

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Good advice, I start tommorow, definately gonna go crazy with approaches haha.
 

Surprisement

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I guess you mean outside of class, the potential for recurring awkwardness is very high otherwise...

I need to work up the nerve to just starting approaching. I always break that 3 second rule and replay every fvck-up that has ever happened socially. Of course I won't come off very well at all with a mindset like that!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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moto

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I see so many hot girls outside of my class around campus. What are some good approaches to do? Sometimes I don't know what to say and i dont want to say anything boring.
 
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