"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you're in a LTR... how often do you get some?

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AlmostThere!

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And...

How long have you been in the relationship?
Do you live together?

(My definition of LTR is 6+ months)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been with my girlfriend about 2 years, but we don't live together. Normally we do it a couple times a week, depending on how i feel. Used to do it every day but i'm over that phase.
 
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Teflon_Mcgee

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Been living together for 3 years (plus we're married.)


We pretty much do it anytime either of us is h0rny.
Anywhere from 3 times a day (like on the weekends) to two or three time during the week (when things get busy sometimes sex just isn't thought about.)
 
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