"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you're in a LTR... how often do you get some?

AlmostThere!

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And...

How long have you been in the relationship?
Do you live together?

(My definition of LTR is 6+ months)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Biggie

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I've been with my girlfriend about 2 years, but we don't live together. Normally we do it a couple times a week, depending on how i feel. Used to do it every day but i'm over that phase.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Been living together for 3 years (plus we're married.)


We pretty much do it anytime either of us is h0rny.
Anywhere from 3 times a day (like on the weekends) to two or three time during the week (when things get busy sometimes sex just isn't thought about.)
 
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