"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

If you're good looking, would C+F line about being good looking work?

Fela Kuti

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2006
Messages
455
Reaction score
3
Just a lame example of such line: "It's normal for you to be nervous talking to a handsome man like me."

Now, if you really are handsome, would women react to it badly such as thinking, "well, duh. hello, mr. obvious." or "yea I can see it already, no need to flaunt it. what an *******."

What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

SoSuaveDude

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2010
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
seems unnecessary and like you're essentially seeking validation or closure on your looks.
 

Kirro

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2010
Messages
368
Reaction score
16
Location
NY
Its all about the delivery. If you boast about your looks...you know you've achieved the desired reaction when the girl puts on a playful frown or scowl & says nothing in response...or a slight "humph" like she's trying to blow it off. Attentive people will notice slight twitching or fidgeting, you may even hear..."showoff" or "yeah yeah".

Now a girl who is totally dumbstruck/outright slut will stroke your ego & overtly agree.

However there really shouldn't be a need to use such remarks & they should be used very sparingly(unless of course you want to troll those around you).
 

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Fela Kuti said:
Just a lame example of such line: "It's normal for you to be nervous talking to a handsome man like me."
There is c@cky and then there is too c@cky. Remember its c@cky and funny not just c@cky.

That line might work if you don't take yourself too seriously. After saying that line you need to do something funny (pop your collar and do a Zollander face).
 

Deadly_Ripped

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2003
Messages
621
Reaction score
26
I'd never use that as an opener, but I did actually say something almost exactly like that to this girl I'm seeing currently. She and I have the rapport though that allows me to say just about anything absurd and get away with it. Gotta start with the jokes early.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

PapiChulo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
1,283
Reaction score
61
Location
Canada, eh?
If I get a compliment about something other than looks, I add that I am such a sexy devil too. I call other people sexy too,including my mom, so they know where I am coming from.....
 

GameTime76

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2009
Messages
126
Reaction score
1
If you feel your good looking then, let your good looks shine on their own. Like DJDamage said; "There is c@cky and then there is too c@cky. Remember its c@cky and funny not just c@cky." Also, dont brag about yourself either.
 
Top