"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you're good looking, would C+F line about being good looking work?

Fela Kuti

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Just a lame example of such line: "It's normal for you to be nervous talking to a handsome man like me."

Now, if you really are handsome, would women react to it badly such as thinking, "well, duh. hello, mr. obvious." or "yea I can see it already, no need to flaunt it. what an *******."

What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoSuaveDude

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seems unnecessary and like you're essentially seeking validation or closure on your looks.
 

Kirro

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Its all about the delivery. If you boast about your looks...you know you've achieved the desired reaction when the girl puts on a playful frown or scowl & says nothing in response...or a slight "humph" like she's trying to blow it off. Attentive people will notice slight twitching or fidgeting, you may even hear..."showoff" or "yeah yeah".

Now a girl who is totally dumbstruck/outright slut will stroke your ego & overtly agree.

However there really shouldn't be a need to use such remarks & they should be used very sparingly(unless of course you want to troll those around you).
 

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Fela Kuti said:
Just a lame example of such line: "It's normal for you to be nervous talking to a handsome man like me."
There is c@cky and then there is too c@cky. Remember its c@cky and funny not just c@cky.

That line might work if you don't take yourself too seriously. After saying that line you need to do something funny (pop your collar and do a Zollander face).
 

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I'd never use that as an opener, but I did actually say something almost exactly like that to this girl I'm seeing currently. She and I have the rapport though that allows me to say just about anything absurd and get away with it. Gotta start with the jokes early.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PapiChulo

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If I get a compliment about something other than looks, I add that I am such a sexy devil too. I call other people sexy too,including my mom, so they know where I am coming from.....
 

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If you feel your good looking then, let your good looks shine on their own. Like DJDamage said; "There is c@cky and then there is too c@cky. Remember its c@cky and funny not just c@cky." Also, dont brag about yourself either.
 
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