"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
if you're confused, if there is any doubt at all
- Thread starter hanni
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
icantgetlaid
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If you show interest in a girl and she's not responding with overt interest back/making it obvious she wants to spend time with you ... next with confidence knowing she was more than likely going to drain your time/money/mental energy/etc.
I can't think of many times where i continued to pursue a girl who seemed 'lukewarm' in her interest, and it ended up getting me laid in the end (and the rare times it did -- it always came with flakiness/stress/disappointment in general/etc.)
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
That's why I go for the college aged girls. Baggage is a big issue! Had a recently divorced girl make moves on me back in 2006, she had kids. Took it as a compliment, but that's it!
Say no, to baggage!