if you're confused, if there is any doubt at all

[hanni]

move on, man. It's not worth the headaches, heartaches, money lost potential legal trouble, old BF's of hers, etc. Especially not if there's also kids of hers involved.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Agree 100%. This has to be the "thou shalt not kill" of DJ commandments.

If you show interest in a girl and she's not responding with overt interest back/making it obvious she wants to spend time with you ... next with confidence knowing she was more than likely going to drain your time/money/mental energy/etc.

I can't think of many times where i continued to pursue a girl who seemed 'lukewarm' in her interest, and it ended up getting me laid in the end (and the rare times it did -- it always came with flakiness/stress/disappointment in general/etc.)

 

[wifehunter]

Interest level is dynamic... It can change, but baggage???

That's why I go for the college aged girls. Baggage is a big issue! Had a recently divorced girl make moves on me back in 2006, she had kids. Took it as a compliment, but that's it!

Say no, to baggage!

 

[hanni]

after you;'ve made and invested a million bux, you can indulge one in some baggage and you will have to do so, unless you find a very young one, in Asia. But until you've secured your income, you're at very grievous risk of being ruined by one or more women.