"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
if you're confused, if there is any doubt at all
- Thread starter hanni
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
icantgetlaid
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If you show interest in a girl and she's not responding with overt interest back/making it obvious she wants to spend time with you ... next with confidence knowing she was more than likely going to drain your time/money/mental energy/etc.
I can't think of many times where i continued to pursue a girl who seemed 'lukewarm' in her interest, and it ended up getting me laid in the end (and the rare times it did -- it always came with flakiness/stress/disappointment in general/etc.)
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
That's why I go for the college aged girls. Baggage is a big issue! Had a recently divorced girl make moves on me back in 2006, she had kids. Took it as a compliment, but that's it!
Say no, to baggage!