"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if you're confused, if there is any doubt at all

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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icantgetlaid

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Agree 100%. This has to be the "thou shalt not kill" of DJ commandments.

If you show interest in a girl and she's not responding with overt interest back/making it obvious she wants to spend time with you ... next with confidence knowing she was more than likely going to drain your time/money/mental energy/etc.

I can't think of many times where i continued to pursue a girl who seemed 'lukewarm' in her interest, and it ended up getting me laid in the end (and the rare times it did -- it always came with flakiness/stress/disappointment in general/etc.)
 
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wifehunter

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Interest level is dynamic... It can change, but baggage???

That's why I go for the college aged girls. Baggage is a big issue! Had a recently divorced girl make moves on me back in 2006, she had kids. Took it as a compliment, but that's it!

Say no, to baggage!
 

hanni

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after you;'ve made and invested a million bux, you can indulge one in some baggage and you will have to do so, unless you find a very young one, in Asia. But until you've secured your income, you're at very grievous risk of being ruined by one or more women.
 
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