Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

That's the truth and why looks do matter whether you want to belive it or not.

Regardless of your "game" the girl was already PHYSICALLY attracted to you.

You just think you see ugly guys with girls when really those guys are just average guys who get average girls horny.

Your just not gay so you can't tell.

THE TRUTH
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am :D
 

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this guy is a troll and I'm 100% sure he doesn't know sh!t. Waste of a thread please deleted.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
 

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Socialreject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
 

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SocialReject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...


Bvbidd said:
DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
hey for a 'troll' ,he does have a point- i judge guys also but i never really thought about it that way... i can tell a good looking guy from an ugly guy,but because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself- i can only ASSUME that he would create sexual attraction in a girl or not, because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself..oh, wait a sec..i think it 'moved' ,nah- false alarm,there was a hot chick standing right next to him...phew, close call :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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u idiot..

its the same thing as
defining a girl is beautiful or not
judging if the food taste good or not
seeing if a flower smells good or not

its common sense, u dont have to be gay to tell if a guy is ugly
 

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and if you're not ugly, you're gay?
sounds like your poor self image has crippled your self esteem.
 
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organizedconfusion said:
dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am
Exactly.

Bvbidd you're a moron. Take your stupid, uninformed, knuckle-dragger ideas somewhere else, please.
 

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organizedconfusion said:
i don't know but this guy is hot!
http://www.mymegaweb.com/peru/images/smile bonita.jpg

or maybe not...yes, i do realize that i may have made myself seem really really insecure- my god i am hurting inside, no really i am :D

*sigh*
what the heck am i doing? i should be out sarging... :eek:
So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bvbidd said:
So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
nah, not really- but maybe if he wore sunglasses,a red sleeveless t-shirt,chewed some bubble gum and walked around like a pervert..then maybe..doh.wait a sec that was cortez from bad boy,never mind.
sarge on :rock:

i gave up girls for sosauve.net..much more fun,much less drama..this is my vacation :rock: yes, i am enlightened..i went from giving good advice,to okay advice,to now using this site soley as a form of entertainment :wave: theres free coffee and it's cheaper then a movie,plus when people think you're dying they really listen,instead of waiting for their turn to speak..

P.S.
*smileys rock*

sarge on
 

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Seriously I don't know what to make of this train-wreck of a thread, but I do have to wonder - does this mean every woman I've known is a lesbian?

For chicks it is customary to say "she's so sexy" or "hot" or whatever.

Guys don't use such flowery description, but we can tell when another guy, given exactly our skills and game, could still come out on top 98% of the time just cuz of his looks.
 
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To the original poster, Bvbidd, a guy's PHYSICAL LOOKS dont make him attractive, there are a lot of AFC nice looking guys out there who can't get laid at all. If you have read anything on sexual state and seduction, you will soon find out PHYSICAL LOOKS don't matter but far as our LOOKS, we just have to be presentable, dress nice, smell nice, be groomed, and have a nice style. Read a little more on the right stuff. Women are sexual beings and being sexual around them when allow them to see you as a boyfriend, talk about her for a minute and see what type of guy she usually is attracted to and connect with her that way to get a fvck. But no, looking like a greek god is a sprinkle of decoration on the cake but its not the cake.
 

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Well if your GOOD ENOUGH then it doesn't matter, but you have to be GOOD ENOUGH.

Would you **** a average chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a hot chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a 500+ pound chick with a deformed face?

Yes Yes No.
 

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Looks do matter--but good looks in men aren't necessarily the decisive factor as they can be compensated for with personality and status. That is, so long as you're at least average. Of course, being good looking in addition to having decent status and personality is quite enviable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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