"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

That's the truth and why looks do matter whether you want to belive it or not.

Regardless of your "game" the girl was already PHYSICALLY attracted to you.

You just think you see ugly guys with girls when really those guys are just average guys who get average girls horny.

Your just not gay so you can't tell.

THE TRUTH
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am :D
 
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this guy is a troll and I'm 100% sure he doesn't know sh!t. Waste of a thread please deleted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
 
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Socialreject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
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DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
 
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SocialReject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
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Bvbidd said:
DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
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hey for a 'troll' ,he does have a point- i judge guys also but i never really thought about it that way... i can tell a good looking guy from an ugly guy,but because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself- i can only ASSUME that he would create sexual attraction in a girl or not, because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself..oh, wait a sec..i think it 'moved' ,nah- false alarm,there was a hot chick standing right next to him...phew, close call :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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u idiot..

its the same thing as
defining a girl is beautiful or not
judging if the food taste good or not
seeing if a flower smells good or not

its common sense, u dont have to be gay to tell if a guy is ugly
 
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and if you're not ugly, you're gay?
sounds like your poor self image has crippled your self esteem.
 
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organizedconfusion said:
dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am
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Exactly.

Bvbidd you're a moron. Take your stupid, uninformed, knuckle-dragger ideas somewhere else, please.
 
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organizedconfusion said:
i don't know but this guy is hot!
http://www.mymegaweb.com/peru/images/smile bonita.jpg

or maybe not...yes, i do realize that i may have made myself seem really really insecure- my god i am hurting inside, no really i am :D

*sigh*
what the heck am i doing? i should be out sarging... :eek:
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So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd said:
So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
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nah, not really- but maybe if he wore sunglasses,a red sleeveless t-shirt,chewed some bubble gum and walked around like a pervert..then maybe..doh.wait a sec that was cortez from bad boy,never mind.
sarge on :rock:

i gave up girls for sosauve.net..much more fun,much less drama..this is my vacation :rock: yes, i am enlightened..i went from giving good advice,to okay advice,to now using this site soley as a form of entertainment :wave: theres free coffee and it's cheaper then a movie,plus when people think you're dying they really listen,instead of waiting for their turn to speak..

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*smileys rock*

sarge on
 
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Seriously I don't know what to make of this train-wreck of a thread, but I do have to wonder - does this mean every woman I've known is a lesbian?

For chicks it is customary to say "she's so sexy" or "hot" or whatever.

Guys don't use such flowery description, but we can tell when another guy, given exactly our skills and game, could still come out on top 98% of the time just cuz of his looks.
 
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To the original poster, Bvbidd, a guy's PHYSICAL LOOKS dont make him attractive, there are a lot of AFC nice looking guys out there who can't get laid at all. If you have read anything on sexual state and seduction, you will soon find out PHYSICAL LOOKS don't matter but far as our LOOKS, we just have to be presentable, dress nice, smell nice, be groomed, and have a nice style. Read a little more on the right stuff. Women are sexual beings and being sexual around them when allow them to see you as a boyfriend, talk about her for a minute and see what type of guy she usually is attracted to and connect with her that way to get a fvck. But no, looking like a greek god is a sprinkle of decoration on the cake but its not the cake.
 
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Well if your GOOD ENOUGH then it doesn't matter, but you have to be GOOD ENOUGH.

Would you **** a average chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a hot chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a 500+ pound chick with a deformed face?

Yes Yes No.
 
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Looks do matter--but good looks in men aren't necessarily the decisive factor as they can be compensated for with personality and status. That is, so long as you're at least average. Of course, being good looking in addition to having decent status and personality is quite enviable.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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