"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

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If your not gay, all guys are ugly.

That's the truth and why looks do matter whether you want to belive it or not.

Regardless of your "game" the girl was already PHYSICALLY attracted to you.

You just think you see ugly guys with girls when really those guys are just average guys who get average girls horny.

Your just not gay so you can't tell.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am :D
 
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this guy is a troll and I'm 100% sure he doesn't know sh!t. Waste of a thread please deleted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
 
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Socialreject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
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DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
 
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SocialReject said:
I guess i must be gay then :)

I can grade guys almost as good as chicks. I can definitly tell wether or not a guy is attractive or fugly...
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Bvbidd said:
DO YOU HAVE AN INSTINCTIVE NEED FOR A PENIS?

Then how the hell can you judge? Your just judging what is most easy on the eyes, not physical attraction.
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hey for a 'troll' ,he does have a point- i judge guys also but i never really thought about it that way... i can tell a good looking guy from an ugly guy,but because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself- i can only ASSUME that he would create sexual attraction in a girl or not, because i don't feel any kind of physical attraction towards them myself..oh, wait a sec..i think it 'moved' ,nah- false alarm,there was a hot chick standing right next to him...phew, close call :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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u idiot..

its the same thing as
defining a girl is beautiful or not
judging if the food taste good or not
seeing if a flower smells good or not

its common sense, u dont have to be gay to tell if a guy is ugly
 
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and if you're not ugly, you're gay?
sounds like your poor self image has crippled your self esteem.
 
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organizedconfusion said:
dude, you don't have to be 'gay' to see with your own eyes if someone is attractive or not..people are either good looking or not good looking,simple as that.I think people that say looks don't matter or whatever, think that they themselves are unattractive. you can kinda sense if you're good looking or not..thank god i am
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Exactly.

Bvbidd you're a moron. Take your stupid, uninformed, knuckle-dragger ideas somewhere else, please.
 
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organizedconfusion said:
i don't know but this guy is hot!
http://www.mymegaweb.com/peru/images/smile bonita.jpg

or maybe not...yes, i do realize that i may have made myself seem really really insecure- my god i am hurting inside, no really i am :D

*sigh*
what the heck am i doing? i should be out sarging... :eek:
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So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bvbidd said:
So that guy in the pic you posted. If he had game would he get chicks?

You ****ing retards.
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nah, not really- but maybe if he wore sunglasses,a red sleeveless t-shirt,chewed some bubble gum and walked around like a pervert..then maybe..doh.wait a sec that was cortez from bad boy,never mind.
sarge on :rock:

i gave up girls for sosauve.net..much more fun,much less drama..this is my vacation :rock: yes, i am enlightened..i went from giving good advice,to okay advice,to now using this site soley as a form of entertainment :wave: theres free coffee and it's cheaper then a movie,plus when people think you're dying they really listen,instead of waiting for their turn to speak..

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*smileys rock*

sarge on
 
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Seriously I don't know what to make of this train-wreck of a thread, but I do have to wonder - does this mean every woman I've known is a lesbian?

For chicks it is customary to say "she's so sexy" or "hot" or whatever.

Guys don't use such flowery description, but we can tell when another guy, given exactly our skills and game, could still come out on top 98% of the time just cuz of his looks.
 
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To the original poster, Bvbidd, a guy's PHYSICAL LOOKS dont make him attractive, there are a lot of AFC nice looking guys out there who can't get laid at all. If you have read anything on sexual state and seduction, you will soon find out PHYSICAL LOOKS don't matter but far as our LOOKS, we just have to be presentable, dress nice, smell nice, be groomed, and have a nice style. Read a little more on the right stuff. Women are sexual beings and being sexual around them when allow them to see you as a boyfriend, talk about her for a minute and see what type of guy she usually is attracted to and connect with her that way to get a fvck. But no, looking like a greek god is a sprinkle of decoration on the cake but its not the cake.
 
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Well if your GOOD ENOUGH then it doesn't matter, but you have to be GOOD ENOUGH.

Would you **** a average chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a hot chick if she wanted it?

Would you **** a 500+ pound chick with a deformed face?

Yes Yes No.
 
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Looks do matter--but good looks in men aren't necessarily the decisive factor as they can be compensated for with personality and status. That is, so long as you're at least average. Of course, being good looking in addition to having decent status and personality is quite enviable.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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