"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If your girlfriend or wife takes a trip to Miami, bad news.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So one of my friends is this Dominican dude, talk about small world here. The guy has been smashing this one girl who is out on vacation to Miami for a week with her friends. Come to find, that girl is actually dating this dude at a company I used to work for. The guy is a "Chad" in terms of his stereotypical look but broooo.....if he finds out. Dear lord, Miami is something else entirely.
 

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actually I consider any traveling alone if not for work a huge red flag, I can't even understand why any guys woul consider it ok
It is a red flag. Early in relationships, there are times where there's a trip on the schedule that was arranged before the couple met.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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its not about sex, its about respect, a interested woman wouldn't do anything to put the relationship in question, traveling alone is exactly that
If your girl is planning solo trips while in a relationship then yes that’s a red flag.


It is a red flag. Early in relationships, there are times where there's a trip on the schedule that was arranged before the couple met.
I’m dealing with this right now. She had a trip planned before I met her lol.
 

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Besides Miami, other US cities that would have a similar vibe are New Orleans, Las Vegas, and Phoenix. You might be able to make an argument for Los Angeles, San Diego, or Austin, TX. New Orleans isn't just wild during Mardi Gras. Most weekends in New Orleans are wild. Las Vegas is Las Vegas, no explanations needed. Phoenix has Old Town Scottsdale and good winter weather. Southern California has lost some luster with the homelessness and poor governances crises there. Austin has always had a party reputation.

I like the international locations you mentioned. Cancun would be more than just Spring Break. You could add a few more places in Mexico to that, such as Acapulco, Puerto Vallarta, and Cabo San Lucas. You didn't mention Ibiza.
Yes exactly, you got my meaning. You know more about this than I do because I don't know about a lot of those places you mentioned lol.

Not everyone travels for sex lol
This is a good point too. Many people travel just to sightsee or for school, work and business or with family.
 
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Wing daygamed a woman who was solo traveling to Miami, this was yesterday, he gets a make out as well. I asked him about it and he said she was from, you guessed it @Jake_Gyllenhaal69, NASHVILLE!
LOLZ

This is a good point too. Many people travel just to sightsee or for school, work and business or with family.
TBH, the only countries I would fear are the UK, Australia, South Africa and New Zealand because they have the charming outgoing chads that can compete with American men. I think the Latin Lover thing is a whole boomer/early Gen X thing because younger girls are repulsed by overly aggressive dudes that dress like mall kiosk salesmen lol. At the end of the day, American men are going to win against every other nationality but the UK and Australia.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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But every city has a reason people travel to it for. Miami and to a lesser extent Vegas are for women to cheat on their husbands.
Red Zone Cities

Miami- obvious reasons

Nashville- Nothing much here to do but bar hop and it's full of thirsty aggressive guys

Atlanta, Dallas, Houston- Unless your girl is going to these cities for business, family, or to see a specific entertainer....She's going for a secret dvck appointment because there's no compelling reason to visit these cities otherwise

Phoenix- I feel like Phoenix is becoming the Miami of the West lol

Las Vegas- Idk, my impression of Vegas was that it was a deplorable Bro NPC city. I didn't see any group of women there unless it was the wives of the fat husbands gambling hanging out together.
 

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Red Zone Cities

Miami- obvious reasons

Nashville- Nothing much here to do but bar hop and it's full of thirsty aggressive guys

Atlanta, Dallas, Houston- Unless your girl is going to these cities for business, family, or to see a specific entertainer....She's going for a secret dvck appointment because there's no compelling reason to visit these cities otherwise

Phoenix- I feel like Phoenix is becoming the Miami of the West lol

Las Vegas- Idk, my impression of Vegas was that it was a deplorable Bro NPC city. I didn't see any group of women there unless it was the wives of the fat husbands gambling hanging out together.
As someone raised in Atlanta, she would have to be pretty desperate to go to the A Town for a d1ck appointment. Your bicurious straight friend is more likely to get d1cked down in the A Town.
 
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As someone raised in Atlanta, she would have to be pretty desperate to go to the A Town for a d1ck appointment. Your bicurious straight friend is more likely to get d1cked down in the A Town.
Idk man, if a girl said she was going to Atlanta for no reason, I would be raising hella questions :rofl:
 

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Idk man, if a girl said she was going to Atlanta for no reason, I would be raising hella questions :rofl:
Actually, Atlanta is not the worst city to go to for a trip. You have good southern food, Coca Cola is there, tons of sporting events like the CFB Playoff this weekend, lots of business-related matters, and lots of concerts.
 

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Nashville- Nothing much here to do but bar hop and it's full of thirsty aggressive guys
Yes, Nashville has that reputation.

Atlanta, Dallas, Houston- Unless your girl is going to these cities for business, family, or to see a specific entertainer....She's going for a secret dvck appointment because there's no compelling reason to visit these cities otherwise
You definitely nailed it about Dallas there.

Phoenix- I feel like Phoenix is becoming the Miami of the West lol
Phoenix is a fairly common affair destination, but the party scene isn't quite on the Miami or Las Vegas level. There's a lot of superficiality in Phoenix and a couple of well known nightlife districts in Scottsdale (Old Town) and Tempe (Mill Ave., near Arizona State). Women looking to have sex outside of their primary relationship would be more likely to search for it in Scottsdale (both Old Town and the northern parts of Scottsdale) than Tempe. Some Phoenix bars would also be places for women out for some side penis but it would pale compared to Scottsdale for that.

Las Vegas- Idk, my impression of Vegas was that it was a deplorable Bro NPC city. I didn't see any group of women there unless it was the wives of the fat husbands gambling hanging out together.
Women will go to Las Vegas to have sex.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Actually, Atlanta is not the worst city to go to for a trip. You have good southern food, Coca Cola is there, tons of sporting events like the CFB Playoff this weekend, lots of business-related matters, and lots of concerts.
I see, maybe I'm just a hater because I'm from Nashville lol. I did like the Coca Cola Museum and this rib shack off Roswell though.
 

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I see, maybe I'm just a hater because I'm from Nashville lol. I did like the Coca Cola Museum and this rib shack off Roswell though.
Looking back at it, Atlanta was arguably easier than NYC for game since the local dude was so repressed due to that good ole Bible Thumping upbringing that shuns sex before marriage. The food scene in Atlanta was unreal though, man that southern food is amazing.
 
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This is 100% true. I know a woman who told me she cheated on her husband whenever they went to Miami. She had somebody who she would sleep with.
 

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I grew up with the Buckhead Bros and outside of social circle and church game, those guys couldn't pull a girl to save their lives.
I met the owner of Spondivot's and I am not impressed...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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