If your girl isn't giving you the respect you deserve, or is giving you drama...

[penkitten]

penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

warning* this does not apply to any "crazy", "nuts" or bizarre stuff*


1. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy says f this and walks off... guy = *******.

2. chick gives guy shi+ test..... guy stays and takes it with a smile ...guy= pvssy.

3. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy gives chick shi+ back... guy = drama queen...

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = man!@....... chick stops giving shi+ tests... chick likes man.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Most times tests are just a defense mechanism to go for some type of pain or hurt feelings she had encountered in the past.

Agreed.

It seems that the more high maintance a girl is, more tests she'll throw at you, and once you've passed she won't take you out of her mind!!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Listen to this advice - I was in a LTR, put up with tonnes of sh*t and it kept getting worse and worse as the years went by that I finally said enough's enough and walked out of the relationship. This is invariably how it will end anyway - with her making you so miserable that one day you snap.

Preach on brother.....

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

Originally posted by penkitten
warning* this does not apply to any "crazy", "nuts" or bizarre stuff*


1. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy says f this and walks off... guy = *******.

2. chick gives guy shi+ test..... guy stays and takes it with a smile ...guy= pvssy.

3. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy gives chick shi+ back... guy = drama queen...

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = man!@....... chick stops giving shi+ tests... chick likes man.

Interesting, but how are we to determine if she's crazy or not? Is it possible? Is there even a difference?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Agreed.

It seems that the more high maintance a girl is, more tests she'll throw at you, and once you've passed she won't take you out of her mind!!!

And you actually think that there would ever be an end to the tests? Well yeah maybe I guess; after she has him well trained and under her thumb...

 

[penkitten]

Re: Re: penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Interesting, but how are we to determine if she's crazy or not? Is it possible? Is there even a difference?

well you will see it and know.. when signals go off in your head that make you think its a fire alarm.. run#$#$@#

 

[MindOverMatter]

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = man!@....... chick stops giving shi+ tests... chick likes man

More like:

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = [email protected] keeps being a biatch, gives guy silent treatment, guy says f*ck off you crazy b!tch, i'm gone, guy = a$$hole

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Re: penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

Originally posted by penkitten
well you will see it and know.. when signals go off in your head that make you think its a fire alarm.. run#$#$@#

Alarm? Fire? Heat??? Are you saying beware of women going through "the change???"

 

[Blackstar]

damn i love this site!!!

my girl sh it tests me all the time and everyday i mean everyyyy day, like for example she is doing it right now.

I called her like around 6 while i was at work we talked for like 5 minutes then she told me that she was gonna call me back cause she had to do something, (didnt tell me what it was)... well its now 12:48 am and she still hasnt call back. how do i handle this when i see her tomorrow?
and if she calls me before i see her (wich she might do) do i pick it up and if so what do i say?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Blackstar
damn i love this site!!!

my girl sh it tests me all the time and everyday i mean everyyyy day, like for example she is doing it right now.

I called her like around 6 while i was at work we talked for like 5 minutes then she told me that she was gonna call me back cause she had to do something, (didnt tell me what it was)... well its now 12:48 am and she still hasnt call back. how do i handle this when i see her tomorrow?
and if she calls me before i see her (wich she might do) do i pick it up and if so what do i say?

Sounds like your life is based around her availability...

STOP IT!!!

Get out and do something for yourself. You must have done it before you met her, why stop?

A wise man once said "I swear on my life and my love for it, I will not live for the sake of any man nor will I ask him to live for mine..."

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Sounds like your life is based around her availability...

STOP IT!!!

Get out and do something for yourself. You must have done it before you met her, why stop?

A wise man once said "I swear on my life and my love for it, I will not live for the sake of any man nor will I ask him to live for mine..."

xactly!

 

[Blue Phoenix]

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = [email protected] keeps being a biatch, gives guy silent treatment, guy says f*ck off you crazy b!tch, i'm gone, guy = a$$hole

LOL

 

[Blackstar]

yeah but do i get mad at her or do i tell her some about it or do i do what i was planning to do, just ignore it completely and act like it does not bother me at all and i could careless, make it seem like i didnt even notice that she didnt call cause i was busy doing better and more important things?

the problem is that she will keep doing it and its not the first time neither

 

[MindOverMatter]

yeah but do i get mad at her or do i tell her some about it or do i do what i was planning to do, just ignore it completely and act like it does not bother me at all and i could careless, make it seem like i didnt even notice that she didnt call cause i was busy doing better and more important things?

the problem is that she will keep doing it and its not the first time neither

Cease all contact with her until she calls you. Approach other girls, hook up, go out with friends, etc, whatever. Then when she finally calls, say that you don't think the two of you should see each other anymore. When she asks why, tell her that she's way too much of a flake, and while some other guys may put up with it, you don't have patience for that sh!t, and that you've found somebody else who you want to start seeing.

She may try to get you into an argument about why you think she's flaky, don't fall for it, ignore it and just tell her she just is.

If she tries to act all innocent or guilt trip you, don't fall for it, it's just an act. if you fall for it, she'll be fvcking with your head even worse the next day. Just tell her that you tried to work it out with her before, and that it's too late now.

If she gets pissed off at you, say you don't have time to listen to this temper tantrum and hang up.

If you see her and she tries to make you jealous again, don't let it get to you, smile and act as if you don't care (which you shouldn't, because you should be seeing someone else now...)

But most importantly, LEAVE HER, and don't put up with her if you're miserable because of her.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
More like:

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = [email protected] keeps being a biatch, gives guy silent treatment, guy says f*ck off you crazy b!tch, i'm gone, guy = a$$hole

dude that was guy#1...

 

[notsofunky]

Re: penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

Originally posted by penkitten
warning* this does not apply to any "crazy", "nuts" or bizarre stuff*


1. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy says f this and walks off... guy = *******.

2. chick gives guy shi+ test..... guy stays and takes it with a smile ...guy= pvssy.

3. chick gives guy shi+ test.... guy gives chick shi+ back... guy = drama queen...

4. chick gives guy shi+ test... guy laughs at chick and says "let me grab some popcorn while you have your little episode"....guy = man!@....... chick stops giving shi+ tests... chick likes man.

What I have gotten numerous times from number 4 is "he doesn't care about me."

I really don't think there is any real solution other than to find a girl who doesn't do any stupid tests designed to be failed.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: penkitten clarifies the shi+ test

Originally posted by notsofunky
...I really don't think there is any real solution other than to find a girl who doesn't do any stupid tests designed to be failed.

Now that would be too simple. Believe it or not there are women out there that forgo the games. Unfortunately some of them are noticeably bitter but at least they are up front about it. It does saves you from wasting your time though.

 

[Silquee Smoove]

Let me add my own take on this as I've previously commented on the whole "test" concept already being talked about on this site.

In my experience from the girls that I've encountered, any time you're being "tested" it's because they have low interest and want to start controlling you.

Most of these tests are created in the mind of the female as an excuse to use against you -- the unlucky male.

Most of the women I've noticed who have tested their men are the controlling, "I want it my way" brats and usually (stress the "usually" part) are sexist in some way or another with some of them being downright feminist.

That has been my experience with women who "test".

Women who have high interest in guys in general are submissive and tend to be more agreeable with you if they are into you.

Those unfortunate women who have been burned in the past as Francisco explained now have a "seed of doubt" in their mind and will always be on the lookout for this type of behavior in the future.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Most of these tests are created in the mind of the female as an excuse to use against you -- the unlucky male.

Most of the women I've noticed who have tested their men are the controlling, "I want it my way" brats and usually (stress the "usually" part) are sexist in some way or another with some of them being downright feminist.

This fits perfectly with the post "Watch out for borderline personality chicks" from pimple-slice!

Yeah, I noticed that too! That's the advantage of interacting with real females and not to spend the whole day here debating and talking about things without REAL life expericence!!!

The crazy ones were freaking controlling, "my way or highway" type of girl. If you put your foot down she'd be angry but later she'd come back to you like a puppy dog and with more freaking tests!!!!!

Crazy ones!

 

[hardwork]

Tips.